Alternate Title: Colombian Infidelity Statistics
All Colombian women cheat – this is a common belief among expats in Colombia. I’ve been hearing it from gringos ever since moving to Bogota, but I dismissed it to sample bias — gringos meeting mostly girls of lower moral fiber. If you make friends partying in La Candelaria and Zona Rosa doing cocaine and ecstasy, what do you think you’re going to get?
In college I met almost exclusively family-type, “good girl” Latinas from the top 1% of social classes in Brazil to Peru. But you’re not going to meet those girls snorting coke at Ceci’s. So I thought the infidelity perception was an anomaly due to sampling bias.
But that changed over time. I think Latin America is a little more unfaithful than what Gringolandia would consider normal, which I attribute to the Catholic Church prohibiting divorce, and Colombia even more unfaithful than that, which I attribute to it being a den-of-sin kind of culture.
Then I came across this hard-copy article in El Tiempo from March of last year: América Latina, territorio infiel. The article says that not only does greater Latin America cheat a lot, but Colombia leads the region. How can I argue with the national letter of record?
Highlights:
Six of every 10 Latin Americans (63%) admit to having cheated at least once … Colombians seem to be the most unfaithful in the region … 66% of [Colombian] men and women admit to having cheated at least once.
The article isn’t as interesting as the statistics, and unfortunately the El Tiempo archive online doesn’t include those. So here are my picks, plus screenshots of the hard copy so you can see them all.
- 10.5% of Latin Americans would like to have sex more than seven times a week
- 9.2% of Latin Americans are currently cheating
- 45.2% of Latin women have never cheated
- 40.8% of Colombian women have never cheated
- 51% of Latin men have paid for sex
- 13.7% of Latin men’s first sexual experience was with another male
- 47.5% of Latin Americans have participated in trios or group sex
- 9.1% of Latin Americans currently participate in trios or group sex
- Colombian trio / group sex percentages are higher than greater Latin America
- 22.3% of Latin Americans had their first sexual experience before 16 years old
- 63% of Latin Americans grew up in homes where sex was never discussed
After reading this article, I started thinking about the dealings I’ve had with Colombian women, and I think a majority had boyfriends. From the very first Colombian girl I made out with to the current booty call.
So maybe there is something to the saying …
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Expat Chronicles 
thx paul for the warning signs but unfortunately i dont have 2k to spend on a detective haha.. but i definitely feel something is wrong and as they say trust your instinct so am backing off emotionally from her.. if a PI was around 500 bucks i’d pay to know the truth for sure…!!
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Guy is mexico, what a fool.
Pierce who went to Cuba? why not meet her in colombia?
Dude who never spoke english to his colombian and learned spanish from her super smart man, at least u came out with something, really slick, all men reading this, do the samething!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Let the women teach you spanish, don’t talk to her in english!
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Dude that banged so many chicks, thought u were filthy , until I read all these other posts that u beat them to their own game. ha ha ha, u r just lucky when u were drunk u weren’t kidnapped or robbed.
Pierce, my advice to you, go date many chicks there and don’t tell yours and then pick your best one, that is what she is doing. Don’t go to Cuba again man, go to colombia.
Other dude is right about chicks from el salavador, mexico , peru, all psycho.
Dude with story about alcoholic brother, sorry man, all colombian men suck , yes they are apes. I had a similar story with a skum bag bro ruining stuff for me and wanting money.
Dude, yes, some chicks like guys to beat the crap out of them to complain.
Hoes exists everywhere, colombia is no different. My colombian chick had a very strong attitude and was so proud that she was “Soy muy fuerte” like it was an asset.
Any guys find a good colombian women? post your story here and tell us where , what city, or website, and how long u have been with here and share please.
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to answer matt i went to cuba with her for 10 days a month ago in order to help her get a tourist visa which was refused partly for fer lack of travel history. when she came back to colombia she was hoping to be pregnant and texted me she was sad that she had her period.. hmm dont really know what to make of that.. btw guys am not desperate for her as i have a couple of girls i fool with over here but am just doubting her honesty cause i see wifey potential somehow lol.. matt why you talk about your colombianna in the past tense..? she cheated too..?
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At Pierce dude shes already trying to get knocked up with your kid? You crazy or something? Dont do that shit! You will regret it!
BY THE WAY TO EVERYONE NEW TO THIS FORUM MAKE SURE YOU CLICK OLDER COMMENTS SO YOU CAN SEE ALL THE STORIES AND SEE IF YOUR GIRL IS CHEATING!
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My colombian chick for several years turned out to be a major liar with a quick temper and had to win in all arguments, she lived near me in orlando , I met her here, and she cheated on me and really her loss, we had several years also together, i put up with her attitude, and almost identical to what the guys here said about a low life brother, 100% agreement with him, he was a major source of the problems and he always wanted money, just a pure low form of skum that only drank beer. I paid her rent here in Orlando so many times , bought her food a lot, and I was a nice guy very faithful, good job, professional, tall, fairly good looks , I took her out a lot to nice restaurants, even to church, she never wanted to go to church with me though, spend all my money on her, point is, she had a good man and no reason to cheat, but we had some arguments and when we were apart due to arguments for say 2 months, I was jacking off LOL to stay faithful and I could have easily hooked up with other chicks, have no problem meeting women if I wanted to, and I learned that she was with at least 1 maybe 2 men like the guy said a “CHOLO” they somehow like that gangster drunk look and meat, but I stayed faithful, and she is 41 now, so she lost a good man and I am going to someone from 28- 35 now.
Pierce be grateful the woman was not pregnant, what a trap. That is clear that she just wants papers. I don’t believe in revenge, but if you played with her and shared the stories with us, everyone on this forum would love you for it!
Drop her and tell her that you are Canadian and don’t have US Citizenship, see what she says and report back to us. She will probably never talk to u.
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Maybe I can help. I live in america now after 27 years living in Itagui colombia. I come to america to learn english and get away from all the bad in colombia. Theres no reason to lie and I feel bad seeing the pain people go threw. Yes Im colombian woman. Yes I used to use men for money. Yes I sleep with them. I use to always have boyfriend from america when I live in colombia because they stupid and they give money fast. I have 3 kids and it is hard to make money to take care for them so yes I do what I did. These men from america really fall for me in love and come see me and tell me they love me. It feel nice and I start to fall for love like they do. Then all I care about is my boyfriend from america to see me and show me nice places in colombia I cant see because I have no money to see these things and places. I count days and months to see my boyfriend from america for fun and because of it I stop to think about my kids. I give my kids to my mom because I am young and want to be free for fun and for love. It was selfish and I know. I have bad life growing up and seen bad things. I see bad things from all my friends to so growing up with them I do bad things to. I sleep with married man all the time. I party with my friends all the time. I make a little money and I spend on clothes and not for my kids. I make my boyfriend from america to make me surgery for new breast and since he love me he give me the money. I cheat on my boyfriend from america all the time when he was in america and I was in colombia. It was easy and he never think I cheat because I tell him every day I love him so much and I want for to marry him and be his wife. Even though I love him I still cheat because I grow up like this. But he never see it because he love me so much and to be honest was very stupid for not see it. He bring me to america because he want to marry me. I leave my kids and go because I want new life. He bring me here to america and he marry me. He help me with papers for to be in america and to get visa for to live here. He help me to get license for to drive. When I learn to drive and learn where to go places I go and meet new man. I meet 4 men and sleep with them for 8 months and husband find out. He do divorce and now I am alone in america with no one. To take care of my bills I date men to pay my bills. Yes I sleep with them to. I sleep with them all with no protection. Yes I have shame for what I do but I do not lie about it. To pierce please do not go for that woman. She want to have baby with you so she can take your money. I know because I did this and now I have 2 kids and no money for them. To mexican who has gf for colombia you be careful to because she can to the same. I am saving money for to go back to colombia and be by my kids. I wish I can say that good man can change me and make me better to not cheat but it not true. If I was man I never be with woman from my country and yes Im shamed to say that but I put me down more if I lie to me to. Be safe ppl.
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hmmm but matt i am canadian..!!! lol
she knew it from day one when i met her in bocagrande.. her original objective was to go to new jersey where her boss’s daughter lives.. they are friends… but now her focus is canada and boy was she crying when my government refused her request for the 10 day tourist visa last november.. btw i never never sensed she had a plan of staying here longer than planned cause she loves her daughter SO much and she’s also the one taking care of her mom.
anyways this site is feeding my paranoia lol
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dear lita u should have had a baby from your american.. what were u thinking eh….?
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Pierce, what is happening now with her? U still talk to her?
Canada is smart, they only let people in their country with money. Her plan was to come on a tourist visa, get pregnant , have an anchor baby, get papers , then bring her daughter here and mother, then the alcoholic ex to beat her and then screw her like colombian women like it , and then you foot the bill!
Tell me what she looks like , is she blonde or dark skinned, tall and thin or short? My buddy once put a colombian chicks cell number in google and got a escort service.
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yeah matt we still text everyday and talk on the phone once or twice a week..she is quite tall and dark skinned with an hourglass figure.. pretty face too. she lives in pozon the furthest and roughest part of cartagena.. french is my mother tongue so some words i dont get sorry.. what is an anchor baby…?
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Pierce a lot of good advice here, stick to it. Deal breaker for you is her kid and sleeping so quickly. Head back there and get another chick, btw, tell her many other chicks have been calling you and ask her to tell you about them and colombian women in general, she will dig a hole for herself. Tell her the colombian flight attendant asked for your number on the airplane and make stuff up, play with her, and let’s see how she reacts.
Per the other posts said, Does any guy have a positive story?
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Hey Pierce, anchor baby , just gets pregnant and if baby is born in USA the baby gets automatic citizenship, rules may be different in Canada. Agree with the advice from all here.
Paul real great points u have made. I am losing the tie now and taking some suggestions , thanks man, and u know what, I have no problem lying about my age now by 10 years too. Chicks can’t really tell. I am 40, and I know a bald guy I know who is 28 and he looks 40, so shoot man, if he can say he is 28, then anyone can. The key is to lie and then when the chick likes you and loves u, then tell her ur real age. But in Colombia, they won’t even care.
Btw, 2k is a lot for a PI , though, you could get away with $500 max.
But, the issue is does Pierce even want to waste a penny on a hoe? That is a lot of money. My friend went to Eastern Europe, messed around with trashy women, while looking for good ones, and brought back a virgin , that is what us guys are being forced to do now, but he spoke the european language. Btw, I don’t recommend Eastern Europe, mafia types too as u even pointed out.
Pierce if you like dark tall women, no shortage there, I was looking for blonde ones from Medellin. Did you see any blondes or light skin ones?
Pierce When u went to colombia, was it cartagena? can u describe your experience from start to finish, from booking the trip, landing in the airport and a taxi and getting around, hotel.
Are you blonde and fair skin and stick out or are you dark tone French with dark hair and blended in more. I am curious how your experience was and if you had any issues or worries from those “Ape men” when u were there ready to rob you or kidnap u.
Do you speak Spanish at all?
And did you feel safe or worried there like u were a bank account?
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hi again matt, yes on my first trip iarrived in cartagena and my initial plan was to also visit barranquilla cali and quibdo but going to the latter was too difficult logistics wise so i gave up. my return was from bogota two weeks later.
i finally stayed 8 days in cartagena cause that chick made me change my plans lol.. but rented a car and visited barranquilla nonetheless during a whole day. after cartagena i hooked up with my ex girlfriend who is canadian as well and she was visiting her friend who now lives in cali as a lawyer.
btw spent 2 nights over there and the sex with my ex was amazing..! chemistry i guess.
last 2 days were spent in bogota where i once again was lucky to get laid the second day with a beautiful tall mulatto girl which i got the number while i was exploring la candelaria.
My first night in cartagena i went to isis(kind of a strip club) and there was that girl from bogota who completely went crazy for me when she heard i spoke english lol.. normally u must pay these girls to sleep with them and i told her quickly that i didnt come to colombia for that( its the truth) but she insisted and gave me her email phone number and even her home address at the club but very discretly so she wouldn’t be caught then fired. anyways to make a long story short i looked for the paper next morning and couldn’t find it haha.. too much beers and pot smoking the night before i suppose.. was tempted to go back but next day i met THE chick and you all know the rest ..
ok i am black supposedly handsome medium built and really look 30 especially cause i dress young and casual and a bit classy which is somewhat important in colombia if u want quality.
everybody thought i was colombian until i opened my mouth..! and thats when the girls became very very intersted.. i guess its rather rare for them seeing a Usher or Jason derulo type of guy travelling by himself and when they realized i was not a sex tourist their attraction became even more obvious..!
My spanish is pretty good now but i must admit speaking french is a huge advantage over americans for example.. in cartagena being from carribean parents has been huge too cause i connected right away with the people over there and they could also feel that i felt home cause cartagena is definitely the carribean atmosphere that i know so well from cuba dr jamaica or haiti.
i booked my flight with spirit airlines and booked an apartment in laguito from a colombian website.
dear matt i never felt unsafe once and even was walking by myself around the creepy santa fe area in bogota around 1 or 2 in the morning looking for crippi(weed) haha.. not something i would advise though but i need to be honest here being black lessens the chances of being attacked or bothered and its something i confirmed and asked to all the hustlers or taxi drivers in colombia. they also said the tall blonde blue eye guy is at more risk thah anyone cause he sticks out easily. thats unfortunate.
so sorry matt cant tell u much about medellin but am definitely planning to visit but personnaly nothing can beat the costenas i saw in CTG BAQ or CALI…!
Nonetheless beware cause everybody is still trying to rip you off. sorry i went that long and if u have any more questions i’ll be more thah happy to answer them matt.
hmmm the 500$ PI might be interesting haha..
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I started to date a colombiana that I met online. In all honesty I went to visit to fuck her and come back to the states with nothing serious. I did that. After fighting with my ex about 3 days later after coming back and her making me feel like shit for fuckin this colombiana I thought let me piss off my ex even more and start dating the colombiana. lmao yea I know its dumb and immature and all that shit and not cool that I was using this colombiana to make my ex jealous but she made me made. So I stuck with it and kept datin her. I flew to see her all the time and fucked her all the time so I wasnt in a hurry gettin out the relationship. Kinda felt bad that colombiana really thought I loved her. I did care about her but my ex was the one I wanted. My ex I guess got tired of the games she knew I was playin and finally gave another guy a shot and shes with him now. I got mad and continued seein colombiana but at the end of the day no way I was gonna marry her. She was a whore cuz she slept with me fast and told me she loved me even faster. She even got kids so I couldnt deal with the baggage. After about 7 months I dumped colombiana. Last I heard she was already with some almost 50 year old guy. Im 32 and she was 29. Ya she was a broke female who was a gold digger but like I say I only dated her to spite my ex. It bit me more in my because all it did was push my ex away. Colombiana did lie to me and use me for money by the way. I even had to buy her a iphone because she insisted on communicating and her old phone wasnt good enough. She was very into herself and barely took care of her kids. Used to see them walkin in the street with no shoes and she aint care.
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Thanks Pierce for the details, can you also quote the price you paid too in $, for airfare, hotel and taxi and restaurants, clubs, drinks, etc, did you exchange your money at a bank?
Is it easy to get access to Viagra?
Based on your story, and where she works, this woman is just for fun, u are better off going back and getting another one if you want a serious relationship. Hoes there are dime a dozen like someone here said in an earlier post
Sam , thanks for the story what I get out of these stories, find one to have a good time only while you try to find one from a good family. But these women love sugar dadys too and nothing like a trashy woman.
Hope everyone uses protection at all times!
Ha ha, Pierce, you, me and Paul and Sam should all go together there and cover each other’s back and have a good time with these babes !!! Plus chicks all over the world love that French accent man!
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if i remember well the airfare with spirit airlines was about 500 dollars with arrival in cartagena and departure from bogota. twelve days total. i had booked a room at the pueblito playa for 55 bucks a night its a bit on the cheap side but girl friendly and the owner is super friendly.
taxi drivers will definitely try to rip you off so its better to ask around to know how much you should really pay. every two days i would go to a money exchange place where the rates are as good as the banks.. they’re also open 24 hours in bocagrande.
hmmm viagra i dont know lol sorry.. never tried cause am still too scared to be hooked on it.. maybe at 50 years old.
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Matt lol we should go and have each others backs. I will never date a colombian girls again because they hoes but I sure as hell will fuck them. Guess its good cuz we can fuck em and come back to america or canada so when we dont want to mess with them no more they are easy to take out our life lmao
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Colombian women are filthy fucking whores and I enjoy every second of it. Never will make them a wife and am having fun because am still young. Fuck them as long as you want and when time comes to get married stay far from them.
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Thanks Pierce,
so how did u communicate with them in english or some spanish?
I am thinking about going, but not sure if I go alone I don’t want to get ripped off.
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hmmm matt a good trick i use is always start with my broken spanish cause then the girls can tell you’re a foreigner right away and you automatically become more intersting in their eyes.
But honestly if you want a more solid relationship a pretty good spanish is important cause english is seldom spoken by the girls there and french even less lol.. well in cartagena.
I went by myself and somehow you always get ripped off but the thing is not to get ripped off twice..!
So i always ask local people about the prices i paid and from there i learn..
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pierce the woman is not a house wife thats for sure.
i was checking out colombiancupid website and there seems to be some nice ones but most are hoes looking for money.
another guy here said he met hoes off that site and they all work in bars or clubs.
man, really hot chicks are mostly hoes and gold diggers there. sam and miguel may be giving the best advice here.
But so you are a French guy and women all love you, no reason to waste time on that one. thanks for sharing your story.
how is the woman doing now?
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wow lol paul i never said all woman love me.. but i tasted all colors and shape so i cant complain ( still have red haired and jewish on my TDL though haha)
as for the colombiana its still the routine so we text everyday day and night and she even called me today at work to apologize cause yesterday she texted that the distance is starting to make it hard on her so i replied well whenever its too much for just let me know and we’ll stop it there.
So i didnt text her after that till this morning which is quite unusual cause most of the time i wish her good night.
Anyways guess i’ll have to send a Valentine gift lol..
Tomorrow night am going to ottawa and spend the night at the hotel with my main bitch so la vie est belle…!!
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So Paul she stops texting you because like a hoe, she found another man there that she is screwing and that will take her to the USA , her original goal. That is why Sam and Miguel do what they do , and you me and Paul are just too naive.
The next time a colombian chick gets her heart broken, she just got beat at her own game.
I joined colombian cupid for the heck of it and seems like I am burning $30, not much, but no shortage of hoes, and guys that act like their pimps. I’ve been told over the years that I am good looking especially for latin women and so I posted some good stuff and good pics and the site must be rigged because most of these woman give 3 words to describe themselves, all use the word “tierna” which means like tender, and they all say the same thing.
and a real women would have a real ad with more than 3 words. Plus they all select “any” for choices of what they are looking for, a rigged site and those that are real are messed up.
Bottom line= hot chick = hoe
ugly chick = nagging bitch looking for love!
so my buddy gets fat chicks and diets them down.
said it works
Pierce if you are smart, don’t send her anything for Valentines.
But Tell her that you sent it to her via US mail and keep asking her if she got it. The mail system is so corrupt.
Don’t send her roses or flowers.
Give them to your chick here instead.
Sam and Miguel, keep up the good work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Btw, if any of u guys can’t find your colombian, look on pornhub where they all are doing shows.
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half asleep, meant to say Pierce instead of myself
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Paul colombiancupid might have some legit postings but for sure they are at least 70% fake. Notice that all the paid members are gold or platinum and are not any women, just the men. They have an algorithim that makes fake profiles run by mob , and duplicates them and some are by men to promote webcam shows of their hoes, and nothing to do with the site
i guess for the women it is free, so men see all these profiles of women and hahahah, they playing with men enough them to renew.
it is a job,
i checked out pornhub and this is an example of how technology has created opportunity for hoes to be bigger hoes. Actually saw one women doing a show snorting coke, sad!
Sams probably got more stories.
pierce have to agree for the sake of this forum dont send the women anything for valentines
send her an empty jewelery box with a card and tell her it was a gold necklace and act they stole it when she gets it!
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yep might just do that lol thanks guys…
oh is there a way to find out if a girl has more than one sender at western union…?
That would help a lot of fellows out there it seems.
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Pierce what do u mean sender? people sending her money?
Man, ur not sending her money are you?
I don’t know how western union operates, but publicly I am sure they don’t release it, you need an insider.
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No matt i dont send her money.. i had lent her money for the visa process but she gave it back to me while in cuba..
I came up with the western union idea cause i feel it would answer many questions for those who would like to know if the girl is playing them with other foreigners..
In my case if she is fooling around its probably with a local cause her english sucks too much lol
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Pierce and any others?
Did u ever use colombian cupid?
Matt, half are easily fake, and bad fakes.
But call me a fool
Ive been chatting for a bit with a nice woman after recently joining and she seems to be from a good family there , good morals and we have been chatting on colombian cupid all night for many days and its been a lot of fun, man, even I checked out her facebook by looking it up from her name without her knowing , and I was surprised, it all looked legit and lot of good morals not one bar pic all from church and with family,
and she never asked me about a job, money , nothing, only God, and
now .I have to say I lost a lot of business from my job wasting my time on her it now seems, and negelecting my work.
she says she that she is getting serious with another guy she met there and getting married next month to a colombian?
WTF?
Why don’t these chicks be upfront?
. These chicks play u like its nothing.
These colombian men are skum! they hypnotize their women and then beat them like u guys said here
Screw this!
So, now I am hard core on Sam’s method!
I am going to date as many women as I can here or else where and pick the best one.
If one gets feelings hurts, oh well.
No more nice guy
these woman do the same
Sam knows what he is doing.
And this may be it for me as far as colombians now!
Pierce, I can only imagine that hoe over there from a bar, if a church one lies, a bar one is a slut.
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I never went on colombian cupid cause i dont like the online stuff.. i prefer by far to pick up on the streets bars restaurants or shopping malls.
Its unfortunate paul cause she might have been a jewel but trust me there are many others..
Like i stated before i am from a carribean culture which is also a machismo culture so even though i dont completely approve it but i understand why the colombianas prefer the local boys instead of us.
From what they tell me and from what i observed foreigners in general are simply to nice…!! they have been raised either fatherless or if he is present he might beat up the mom or the older siblings so from a young age the colombiana sees that a man can be violent and a jerk but her mother will still love him so she thinks that is how a man shows love.
Our way of loving is simply too HOLLYWOOD haha..
How many times girls told me they cant stand or respect a yes yes yes man…!
Sometimes i do it on purpose to put aside the nice canadian in me and just become a jerk by being jealous or asking her where she was and with who and guess what…?
They respect me more for that cause in their mind i show that i care. i know its stupid but in colombia nice guys really really finish last.
The only women who will go with a softie is the one in her thirties with a couple of kids cause her options are getting scarce.
For the younger ones even if you have to fake it play the macho card.. not too much but enough and i am telling you its the best combination out there.
A tough but loving foreigner has no competition.
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@ Lita
Thank you Lita for writing your thoughts. This is an amazing post. First time I have ever seen a Colombiana actually openly admit how fucked up Colombian women are. I have visited Medellin 5 times and the women are unbelievable and sexy. I have a novia and have met her daughters and family. I love every minute I am with her and the sex is insane. I have started picking up the pattern of small lies and now I wonder if she has a chico boyfriend. I also became very angry with her for being so late or not showing up several times. I am pretty seasoned with Latinas and always check my emotions against reality. If things don’t seem quite right, they probably are not. I will not let this girl or any others take advantage of me.
Fortunately for me, I know quite a few women in Medellin. If my novia flakes, there are plenty of girls I can and do call. I am at a point in my life where I don’t need a wife. My kids are grown. I am not looking to settle down. I can live the Colombian life style and enjoy the abundance of pussy without regret. Viva Colombia!!!!
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Pierce that is funny what you wrote and is the truth.
I like the way you described and it is perhaps one of the best ways of explaining it that I have ever heard and it make perfect sense. I guess a little nice in the beginning then macho,
What did u end up sending the lady Pierce for valentines?
Esteban , where are u from/;live and how old are you?
And all colombian women are not hot, just go to colombiancupid, plenty of dogs too. For every hot colombian woman there are 5 dogs at least. A lot fat ones and the fat ones are the good Catholics/Christians, the hot thin ones are the hoes, and most likely pimped by their fathers, ha ha ha
Matt I am still laughing so much how you were so faithful that you were jacking off and the bitch cheated on you and you were a nice guy spoiling her. Man , sorry to hear this.
So, this is why Sam just screws them until he finds one he is ready to marry. But if Sam is not careful , then you get a disease or get her pregnant, and just thinking about that you can’t perform.
My thing, If I wanted a chick with kids, I would have a million now, I don’t want that baggage and shit head colombian aquadiente drinking jobless cheater abuser father in the picture.
If I have to pay for pussy too, I am not interested.
You pay for pussy and then after you finish you feel like a loser.
THe guys here that go to colombia and hire hoes, u can do that anywhere off craigslist, ha ha ha,
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If it were only for valentine’s day i would not have sent her nothing lol
But her birthday is in 3 days so i sent her a Samsung tablet.
Lost my old phone yesterday so got myself a Samsung S4 my first smart phone so i’ll finally get the whassap she been begging me to have for months now lol..
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nice artical and thanks for the time you spend on it with the facts
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I went to Colombia on a vacation and met a girl there. She seemed like a nice girl. I had sex with her within the 10 days I was there many times. She told me to download an app called Whatsapp to keep in touch. I should of seen that as a sign right there. How many other people she was talking to from America that she knew the app so good to tell me about it right away? We always talk and got to know each other and I found myself just spendin $ on her. Tried to date and make it work but a hoe is a hoe and I am done for even trying. These girls are all about money. They love us american guys because we offer them more then there own guys over there. To them its like winning the lotto. They get used to the nice things and money and spending on them. When the time comes and we leave they cheat and fuck around. Mine did that to me and I was dumb not to see it. To pierce and the other guys trying to make it work you need to get out while you still can. These females will ruin lives. By the way much respect to lita for being honest on how fucked up her own people are.
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cool post ron..
was your girl fluent in english and how did you found out about her cheating….?
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To the mexican with the colombian gf and to pierce you two must be extremely stupid or extremely desperate for pussy to consider dating colombian girls. Fuck them and leave! These bitches are gold diggin sluts. I never dated them but some of my boys have and they ruined their lives. Get out while you can!
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Hey Pierce , funny how the stories keep growing.
How is the chick?
I am now going out with a chick here in her late 20’s, I just put on a cap and dress like a surfer and said I am 25, she said I look 30, so even 10 years younger, haha, I just stick to 25, at this point she won’t even care
Ron’s story is basically what everyone is saying. Hoes are hoes. Guys goes on vacation and the chicks just want a good time and play everyone.
To Joseph, rough comment, Pierce is a cool guy, and if you read the threads, he’s got other chicks too, so he has a backup plan.
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Whats up Paul…?
wow where to start lol.. without me knowing mx ex girlfriend (who is still in love with me btw) had taken the colombiana’s
email from my computer in cali in june..!
so she started chatting with her on badoo since and its only last week my ex came clean to me about it cause she didnt want me to think she was jealous (which she clearly was lol)
So to be brief my ex told me the colombiana never mentionned having a canadian bf but instead that she had a local guy who lived out of town and came to visit her once every two weekends.
So i wasnt sure if my ex was bullshitting but she sent me the colombiana’s pic as proof.
But the best is yet to come haha..
My ex also went to Cartagena in january and fooled around over there with a local lawyer and she convinced that guy to chat with my colombiana and guess what….?
they have a date tonight…!!!! lol
so i told my ex that i need pics or voice recordings this way the colombiana will just have to admit the truth.
So my ex and I are texting as of this moment and cant wait to see what happens.
As soon as i knew she was on badoo that was it for me.
now the thing is when do i hit her with the truth haha..
even kinda wanna go to CTG fuck her good and the day before i leave…Bang..!!
i’ll keep u guys updated cause got to go to ottawa to meet my main chick..
Hmmm what can i say colombian chicks are really hoes.
Thank god for my instinct.
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Pierce at least you realized it. Congrats. Lets hope that Mexican dude is not a moron.
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Hi Pierce?
How you been?
How’s the chick?
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hi paul i’ve been good thx
just got back two days ago from cartagena and i got two thirds of my money so better than i expected.
the surprise factor helped me a lot and i think she almost passed out from what i heard lol
but wow she almost convinced me with all her crying and that she wants to die stuff.. did not know she was such a good actress…!!!
but the proofs were overwhelming..
the emails exchanges with some dude in florida or her profile in badoo or the magicjack with the 239 also from florida etc..
but that didnt stop her from denying and denying saying i met her mom or that everyone from her restaurant knows me and all that BS
i had to threaten her saying i’d call the canadian and american embassies if i didnt get my money and she behaved but never admitted.
lesson learned folks
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Two types of females I will never fuck with again are Puerto Ricans and Colombians. I mean are these females serious? They have kids they cant even raise and they have the nerve to think they are hot shit? I dated a colombian and when we fought she expected me to always come runnin back to her sayin sorry. Yes I did love her but I will keep it real she wasn’t the girl I loved most from my past so it was easy to stand my ground with her. I got so much more goin good for me then she do and to be real I knew I would not last with her because she was not a good mother because she dont live her 3 kids who are under 10 yrs old. I still aint heard the end from my mom about dating a woman with kids. Idk wtf I was thinkin on that. I read what pierce said about middle eastern women and I must agree that they really have their head on right. My friend is dating a middle east girl and aside from bein beautiful she is educated family oriented and has so much respect for herself and my friend. To be honest I am jealous of him. Colombian bitches are not worth all the hassle they bring. Not worth all the money I spend. Not worth taking care of their (not mine) kids. Not worth their nasty attitudes or their self centered egos because of their plastic surgical bought bodies.
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amen to that Dario.
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Hey Pierce, glad all is well.
Dario, well said.
Especially about Colombians always wanting the guy to say sorry. And all they love money.
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I am Colombian living in Canada! I am a decent woman… went to college… got two diplomas… No wonder when I tell guys, mainly gringos, that I am Colombian and I do not put out right away… the never call me back… I am soo sad now after reading this comments… now everything makes perfect sense… 😦
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Hello Marisol, you are probably from a good family.
I think most of these stories are from people that met women at bars and broke looking for money. It is hard to find good women from good families.
Mariso, email me here
9045business@gmail.com
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hi , i met with a colombian woman on internet , she were living in bogota , she had children . started realtionship with her, she said me how she loves me fall in love with me etc..4 months later i found a chat history on her pc , she were writing amazing compliments to a guy, i said wtf is that..bcz i wasnt know colombian mujeres cheats guys ..i asked her what is that..and i got crazy answer.. she said that : i didnt guess u will be anger or sad that much.. really wtf is that i asked myself and i fucked her after she came visit me here..and kicked her ass till forever..colombian woman for just fun i learnt that..
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hi brkg
U said she came to visit you…
Where is that exactly…?
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where is that ? my living place ?
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Hmmm no..
I was wondering if she had a visa and came to visit you in the States…
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yes she came here , but i live in istanbul.not usa
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I am a 34 year old man from Mississippi and I love to travel. Colombia was definitely on my list and I had to go. When I did I slept with a girl on my first day and never saw her again. About my 6th and last day in I met a girl at parque lleras and she seemed like a friendly girl not to mention she had big fake tits that she loved to show off. I knew she would be fun to toy around with but I did not have enough time to seal that. We kept in touch on fb and whatsapp (funny she told me about that app too wonder how many other people she had on it) and she kept telling me how much she cared for me and wants me to come visit again so I did. I fucked her the same night I flew in. At that time I would say I knew her about a month. Big big time hoe. Before I left she told me she loved me. After a week of being there. I did not want to hurt her feelings because there is no future with me and a hoe. She told me she been with 3 guys but fucking me that fast I knew that was a lie. She has 1 kid and she lets her father raise her. She always hits me up and tells me to come back and fuck her. I for a moment considered giving her a chance but I refuse to be with a women who looks like she wanted to take care of me more then her kid. That shows a lot. Colombian bitches are for fucking and throwing away!
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For all of you dating or used to date a Colombian with kids, nice bodies, wearing thigh clothing, long hair, high heels, with a profile photo wearing bathing suit, meet her in a bar, that wants you to pay all and she doesn’t have at least a bachelor degree and a job. You are an idiot if you though a womam like that is honest and faithful. I am married to an american who lived in Bogotá 2 years before meeting me. It took him a couple of dates to realize who are the gold diggers. it is sad to read all you guys said, I hope women in Colombia stop making of themselves objects, but it is just a small percentage.
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Colombian women arent worth a fuckin thing. They are nothing but gold digging hoes. Friendly yes. Sweet yes. Fuckable extremely. Deserve to be wives? Never. Only a fool would get serious with one.
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I dont agree, I have traveled the entire globe and became hooked on Colombianas. IMHO, The key is to stay away from the bars and clubs in the cities. Look for a woman from outside the big cities , more rural areas. Then take your time and patiently forge a long distance relationship with very clear ground rules and never bend or break the rules. I have a beautiful colombiana who is loyal, honest and consistent. She and her teen age boys (divorced for 14 years) are well established in the church in her community. She is rock solid and we have been together almost two years and plan to marry.
Sometimes its kind of funny as she goes out of her way to let me know exactly where she is at all times and will skype or email me photos on the spot. She is well aware of the reputation of Colombian men and women and protects hers. Unknown to her, I have the professional means to confirm anything should I ever be suspicious.
Going through women like a deck of cards and playing games gets boring and becomes a huge expensive waste of time. Some of you guys whining about women being hoes while at the same you are seeing multiple women is hilarious. If thats the game you are running then who care who they are seeing? You cant control it anyhow. If you handle your business correct they will drop everything and focus on you; but that doesnt sound like what many of you want anyhow.
BTW, Asian women are the most promiscuous. Bangkok and the PI are off the hook with available promiscuous women. But again, why should it bother anyone when they are choosing to go through women like a deck of cards anyhow, whats the problem?
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Don’t marry her that is when everything changes. Don’t be fooled. I have been there and done that! There is not a single one of them that doesn’t have an ulterior motive and that motive is what’s in your pocket!
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Jim is the dumbest fucking idiot on earth! A woman who has to prove where she is at all times should be the biggest red flag!
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Ok scenerio-
I am a professional, educated, white woman from a good family.
I meet a man who I am highly interested in… And I am pretty sure we have mutual chemistry.
He has a live in gf.. Colombian. Said she got pregnant after a month. They have now been together for a few years but he is not marrying her. He complains that she bitches all the time, she doesn’t work, just stays at home and he supports her, the kid, and another kid I believe she has from a prior man. She also complains that he won’t marry her.
Any tips of how I can get rid of this chick? There has to be something about her he likes…but not enough to put a ring on it… Lol
Karmas coming for her….I’m just not sure how to pull it off yet.
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Rachel you are a complete fool if you think this guy is serious with you.
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Well, I am just very much sorry you all had those horrible experiences with Colombian women. I am not going to claim women in my country are or are not anything in particular. I am just going to say that judging all of us because you had bad experiences with some Colombian women is unfair. I could easily say Americans have a very bad reputation as well, both men and women, not only here but all around the world. However, I know that is just a stereotype. I have known wonderful people from the US, very decent men and women. It is just that I did not look for them in bars or nightclubs while I was trying to get laid as you said. I met them while studying in good universities, while traveling or at work. It is obvious for me that you are talking about poor women with very little education -you met them in bars, they have plastic surgeries and children with different dads-. If you are going to judge all of us at least do not go for the weak and desperate, I am sure I would have the same impression of the US if I would have done what you did here
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Hi Ana, it appears that stereotypes are everywhere. Thank you for being the voice of sanity. You obviously are a good person.
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I’m colombian woman married to an Indian guy. We’ve been married for 10 years and I never cheated on my husband. I don’t come from the top 1% colombian society. I come from a very poor but hard working family. We are good financially because we both have sucessful careers. We had to deal with stereotypes. I remember my friends calling me crazy for marrying an indian and his friends telling him I was a gold digger.
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This is not true at all.
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Type your comment here…
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I am married to a Colombian man…He has a female friend in Colombia he claimed is his Grandma’s God daughter..This woman befriended me on facebook then behind my back, she wants to come to my country to be with my husband…When I spoke to her about it, she denied it and called me a bitch and used foul language to me..This Colombian woman is dangerous..All along I thought she was my friend..
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DONT Marry OR Bring COLOMBIAN Women
I was married to this girl from medellin for 2 and half years , finally opened my eyes,, fooled me so quickly into marrying her, never helped me with any bills, all she did was send money to her family back home, constantly asking me financial support to bring her mother and brother to the states. After we filed i751 with immigration, made comments like it’s too late, it’s done, telling we have to stay married another year, had me all confused,,it was after I took good advice from everyone , I filed for divorce, the day day she got served some guy picks her up and drops her off,, I am like what the fuck..but I was warned she might falsely accuse me of domestic violence, so I went and stay at my friends house till divorce was final,
Came from nothing, the day her lawyer explained her rights in the prenuptial agreement her lights came on.
For all you men out there, have a prenuptial agreement, please include no alimony,no spousal support, no homestead, that she won’t get anything.
P.s.even after she agrees to the clauses of the prenup. Remember her lawyer has advice her what she needs to do, which is bring her family here. Don’t fall for this, there are so many stories, once her family is here then the husband does not exist.. good luck
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Amen to that
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Any man who dates or marrys a Colombian woman is the most stupid man on earth! No matter how pretty they are, they are not worth all the bullshit they bring! Holy Christ!
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My ex this year went to Malaga spain on a golfing trip he came back 3 days later he told me it was over he gave me a line saying we have been living like flat mates my feelings have gone and not coming back devastated as you can imagine weeks later I found out he bought a ring worth £749 that’s when he told he was having an affair I have found out she is columbian spanish he was very quick to sell the house we were living in and now he has immagration papers but I don’t know if it’s for him or her he 45 she is 26 now I have heard and seen stories that this is a con can anybody out there either confirm or deny what is going on please
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Wow, sorry many of you have had bad experiences. But your word is NOT law and your experiences speak for no one but the people involved. So stop with the stereotypes. I had a great Colombian gf for 18 months snd currently enjoy dating as a single man. Of course I have standards which don’t include nightlife. You get what you put out, bar hoppers.
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I have met in the past three years three colombian (but I know many more around here). They grew up in a chauvinistic society were macho men are expected to have extra marital affairs. So, they feel empowered to do the same. So if they marry or have a relationship with a sucker (like me) that is loyal with good intentions you become the cheated (cachoneado o cornudo). Case one: she was going out with me (divorced) but had this other idiot married man on the side that he would not let go until today. We broke up very recently. She drove me crazy for three years. Case 2: She divorced her husband but still refers to him as current however she has been dating a good friend of mine for like four years and my friend is usually second to anything even though he is devoted to her. Case 3: very prominent figure here she is married to an older gringo looking old already and she has on the side a dance partner as her ‘mozo’. I figure all colombian women or 99% need two or more men in their life. But they all give amazing sex and are very kinky due to their experiences (threesomes, trains, orgies and such). If you are a monogamist stay away from Colombian women!!!!!!!!!
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hello i`m gamal abdelhmid kesba from egypt
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I am in the US, met this “lady” originally from Colombia, tells me she married some dude to help him get papers… Well, that was the first lie – she was screwing him the entire time (on the side); she’d smile at any guy who’d look her way; she kept her own place in order to continue the “operation”; always
ask for gifts; and would frequently disappear (“the phone wasn’t working, was with the girls, etc..”). This is why her ex husband bailed on her years prior – she was still going strong.
I REALLY THINK NOTHING OF UNEDUCATED COLOMBIAN “LADIES”. Oh, and what’s the problem?
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I am Colombian And i just wanted to let You all know that The best husbands are not from The US But from
Turkey they are The most faithful And considered Man ion earth i have being
Married For 38 yrs .
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I love my sweet Turkish husbund The best Of The best in The entire world
Seni çok seviyorum
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Who cares American man and their friking Visas….
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You get what you deserve. End of discussion. I am very curios to know where did you meet these wonderful women.
I am Colombian and I found these post really really funny, and some chauvinistic commens, so fuck them and ditch them eh?
Be careful what you wish you for, you might get it.
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I was recently talking to some single European colleagues of mine at work and asked their opinion about dating in Colombia.
Right away they both told me Colombian women are very unfaithful and that one needs to be careful.
One of them told me he is currently seeing a women who has a boyfriend and is happy with her relationship and that she has her boyfriends photos all over the house. He says she is not even worried about the photos and very comfortable with the whole cheating situation. His point was she didn’t even tried to hide her existing relationship.
Him being here for many years and being single he is convinced that cheating is second nature to Colombian women.
If so many people are repeating the same thing over and over again, I say “if there’s smoke there’s fire”
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Interesting statistics, sounds about right to me.
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Hallo everyone. I know one Austrian man, who met one Columbian woman accidently.. He was single, never married.. She immediately hooked him with her fake boobs and sweet at the beginning behaviour.. He didnt expect such “passion” attack. and decided that is was all for real.. After 3 months of datin him, she moved into his house and the very moment began to act as an owner telling him where to go and what to do: reading through all his mails, checking his phone calls in search for other ex ladies with whom he had contacts in the past.. If someone showed some danger – that Columbian cheap low society whore immediately began to scream … few months later she pretended to be sick – and made the man to pay in clinics for her.. Then she decided to visit all of a sudden her relatives( whom she never needed before)- he had to pay all the expenses… After that – she came up with an idea to ” modernize her body” and sucked 10 000 euros out of him, flight ticket, cash to live on in Columbia and went aways… She claimed that plastic surgery recovery would last about 4 months… That imbecil Austrian still sends her money, because it is not ” enough”… Now he is going to visit her.. He still cant believу that she is a gold digger.. He still hopes that she loves him… inspite of the fact that he calls her 3 times per day- for her it is a show in Columbia for all around that she is having an old rich sponsor.. Now he started thinking that its all as a show- she wants him to buy a house for her.. as a proof of his love.. who is an idiot???? he is 55, she is 40..fake big tits…..I think he wont be back from Columbia… her ex lovers are planning to suck more money of him.. He is such a dumb….
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I’m Colombian and all those comments are funny, so what are you looking in colombia? you guys cannot find a girl in USA? many of those guy that are looking girls in colombia are looking young girls, what do you expect when you are old ? and smell like dog? who care about Americans?? I love my Dutch husband, we are together 5 years ago
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I have lived in Colombia for more than six years, and I agree that the vast majority – but not all are cheaters. They are used to their BFs, fathers, brothers, etc. cheating as much as humanly possible, so they do the same to avoid being “suckers.” For the same background reason, they are also insanely jealous. If you don’t answer your cell phone for 15 minutes, they will be sure that you are cheating and will quickly take revenge by cheating on you.
Most are also all about money. The statistics show 66% live in the poorest half of neighborhoods, they are unemployed or make 200 dollars a month (the minimum wage), and most have kids with someone who does not contribute money. Thus, they have few options apart from looking for a foreigner to finance their situation.
How about a rich girl? There are some, but hardly any of them date foreigners – unless you are also super rich and about their own age. And in any case, you are always expected to pay for everything, even if she makes good money herself. Colombian guys tend to spend almost all their money on women. They hardly have others interests, and if you as a foreigner do, the women will think you are selfish.
Are there “good” colombianas? Sure, and they may even be beautiful, smart and fairly young. But they are extremely few and far between. I would say if you are looking for one that is beautiful, smart and decent, you will have to date at least 100 girls to find her …. and even then you are by no means guaranteed to get her. She will have at least two dozen suitors after her that are at least as good a “catch” as yourself.
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I find all the comments so sad to the heart who of you have Jesus Christ in your heart? its not hard to find a faithful women in any country once you stop all the hate and remember you are of the planet earth when you want to stereo type people listen to how you sound Please try to find Love in your heart then you will be able to find love in another, when talking about another person would it be best to be kind or do you really believe in talking trash about human beings is good. we are all of love once you find yourself and truly except love into your heart then you are ready to share that love with another, but until you yourself truly find love within yourself and only then can one find true love within you.
I would just like to say that I have faith in everyone of you and my faith shall not go astray for it is within my power to bring you all closer to understanding love becoming one with love and if we are not all of love then of what are we of then? just as there is sunset for every sunrise there is an up for every down HELLO GOOD EVIL you choose,,
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Hi everyone .
I’m a 23 year old Colombian woman . Went to the UK and did my bachelors there and lived there for 6 years . met my first boyfriend an English white guy that I truly loved . I was loyal and faithful. I WAS NOT after his money coz thank goodness i have my own , nor I WAS NOT after any visa or paperwork coz I don’t believe marriage is something to play with like that . You marry someone coz you truly love that person REGARDLESS of their race/ money /religion .
After around 3 years he left me , no explanation nor a call or a goodbye . And for that reason I DONT THINK ALL BRITONS ARE TWATS .
It is sad how you all think Colombian girls are hoes , if you think you gonna find the love of your life in a club surrounded by unaducated people you are making a mistake .
Finding someone takes time . It’s not a matter of em being Colombians it is a matter of you looking for easy sex that will only leads you to meet nasty women, and that could happen anywhere in the world .
Thank you .
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Hi everyone .
I’m a 23 year old Colombian woman . Went to the UK and did my bachelors there and lived there for 6 years . met my first boyfriend an English white guy that I truly loved . I was loyal and faithful. I WAS NOT after his money coz thank goodness i have my own , NOR I WAS after any visa or paperwork coz I don’t believe marriage is something to play with like that . You marry someone coz you truly love that person REGARDLESS of their race/ money /religion .
After around 3 years he left me , no explanation nor a call or a goodbye . And for that reason I DONT THINK ALL BRITONS ARE TWATS .
It is sad how you all think Colombian girls are hoes , if you think you gonna find the love of your life in a club surrounded by unaducated people you are making a mistake .
Finding someone takes time . It’s not a matter of em being Colombians it is a matter of you looking for easy sex that will only leads you to meet nasty women, and that could happen anywhere in the world .
Thank you .
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Hi Lea, more people read than post. Thanks for being a voice of what is right.
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i started dating a Colombian lady. I really plan to meet her in person but i mostly talk to her when she contact me or she is at home. When she leaves the house, makes it hard to catch her on phone which is a lil bit suspicious… I have experience with long distance relationship and i will be able to figure out if something is goin on. one thing i am sure they are possessive
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I’ve traveled the world, and learned a few things about foreign women. Unless you’re one of the very very few who get extremely lucky, never marry a foreign woman. I’ve been to Colombia, where my interpreter (even though I speak fluent Spanish) was cock-blocking me. She they said she wanted to start a relationship with me. I said “What if I move dowh here and we marry and live here?”…..”Never”. That’s the biggest test question for me. Mostly, they just want out. And IMBRA is the bullshit law which helps them screw you. Even with a prenup, IMBRA screws the guy. And they have the playbook. Since I like whiter girls, I studied Russian for a year, with plans to go to Ukraine, and guess what? Russian and Ukrainian women just started popping out of the woodwork through my tutor and all over the place, I got a Russian girlfriend. I meed Russian girls who are divorced, who want to sleep with me, Russian women who have lied and said their husbands beat them to get a temporary green card, and guys this hard nature of Russian women really opened my eyes! My Russian girlfriend even gave me a wedding ring, to wear around my neckchain. When we’re having sex, she’s laughing, because the ring is her husband’s which she’s divorcing. So after all these experiences, I formulated a plan. Live in the woman’s home country. Never get married, just live well there. Don’t buy a house that if you put in her name, she might have you killed for. Get money sent every month, so you are a cash machine she needs to take care of. Give your girl an allowance, a reasonable allowance, and tell her this money is hers. She can save it, spend it, or give it to her family. But don’t expect any more for fake emergencies.
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Is sad how Some people from around rhe world are going to Colombia looking for drugs and sex so they go ro the worst places and guess what they find? Same people like you, doesn’t mean that all Colombians are bad. I live in Canada and guess what? Canadian man don’t want to marry Canadian women because when they get divorce everything is for her. So review your moral values before talking BS about another cultures
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Great post by Lea (whose English incidentally is better than most here). Sadly most of the comments demonstrate the kind of boorish misogynistic imperialist American that gives the country a bad name -but of course it would be descending to their level to stereotype all American men like that
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Netflix true crime series Narcos spurs huge demand for Colombian women.
Produced by Netflix, the show “Narcos” takes on the infamous Medellin drug cartel which follows the rise and fall of Colombian kingpin Pablo Escobar and the Drug Enforcement Agency agents hunting him. The story is told largely from the points of view of Escobar (Brazilian actor Wagner Moura) and U.S. DEA Agent Steve Murphy (Boyd Holbrook), on opposite sides of what would become an all-out war.
Many critics of true crime dramas have always complained they are promoting crime and violence by glorification, an unintended consequence of American entertainment industries. These shows can have other interesting consequences. The Foreign Bride industry has seen a huge spike in demand for Colombian women. This can be viewed as positive or negative, depending on social perspective.
Foreign Brides, sometimes referred to as “mail order brides”, a term the industry completely rejects, have become a billion dollar a year business. According to industry leaders, Colombia represented only about 3% of the market three years ago. Since the popularity of Narcos, many companies have seen near tenfold increases in men seeking Colombian wives.
A Foreign Affair (AFA), a company that helps men find women through international tours, says tours to Colombia are now selling out. AFA arranges group tours where 10 to 20 men travel together to Medellin, Cartagena or Barranquilla. During the tour, they attend arranged Social events where the men meet hundreds of beautiful Colombian women looking for marriage. Women can also place their profiles on the AFA web site, in the hopes of finding a husband.
Kenneth Agee, the marketing director for AFA says, “Because of the show we are doubling our tours to Medellin for next year. Narcos has brought a lot of attention to the intense beauty of Colombian women. Although the show is often very violent, the women of Colombia come across as very family oriented and loyal. These values seem harder and harder to find in this world. I would have to agree, because of the interest in Narcos, we even added an excursion to where Pablo’s self-built prison was located, in the hills overlooking Medellin.
The crowning of 2015 Miss Universe Paulina Vega put Barranquilla, Colombia on the map. Barranquilla now has recognition for being home to some of the most beautiful and talented women in the world. Not only is Miss Universe from here, Grammy Award winning pop singer Shakira, and actress Sofia Vergara also call Barranquilla home. Vergara stars on the ABC series Modern Family as Gloria Delgado-Pritchett. She’s been nominated for 4 Golden Globe Awards, 4 Prime time Emmy Awards, and 7 Screen Actors Guild Awards, all stemming from this role. In 2014, she was ranked as the 32nd Most Powerful Woman in the world by Forbes.
David from Mesa AZ says he met more qualified women in one week than he has during the last 10 years. In 2010, Lisa Ling and the Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN) filmed a one hour show on the AFA tour called “Online Brides – Our America with Lisa Ling.” Even Lisa Ling was surprised by the beauty and sincerity of the women from Barranquilla.
Janet Davis, head of a women’s rights group says “AFA is just taking advantage of women from these third world countries. This is no different than Pablo trafficking in narcotics, but these companies traffic women.” Proponents refer to a Report (INTERNATIONAL MATCHMAKING ORGANIZATIONS: A REPORT TO CONGRESS) that these marriages have much lower divorce rates and abuse rates compared to traditional domestic marriages. This data makes international dating similar to a woman in the US joining eHarmony to look for a husband.
23-year-old Viviana, from Cartagena, says “I come to these events because I know the men attending are serious about marriage, they are faithful and are good to family. For Colombian women, it is the most important thing, good husband and good family.
Kenneth says, “It has not been all rosy. Narcos has brought us some problems. In Cartagena, we have several Penthouses we rent out. One was originally owned by “Don Diego” head of the Norte Del Velle Drug Cartel, the other by Pablo’s people. Over the past year, the properties have been tracked down by individuals thinking they will find large qualities of cash hidden, thus we sometimes find holes all over the walls after a tenant leaves.
For Narcos fans, those who love the gangster genre, or just those who just like seeing beautiful Latin women, there’s good news; Netflix’s has confirmed Season 3 and 4.
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Netflix true crime series Narcos spurs huge demand for Colombian women.
Produced by Netflix, the show “Narcos” takes on the infamous Medellin drug cartel which follows the rise and fall of Colombian kingpin Pablo Escobar and the Drug Enforcement Agency agents hunting him. The story is told largely from the points of view of Escobar (Brazilian actor Wagner Moura) and U.S. DEA Agent Steve Murphy (Boyd Holbrook), on opposite sides of what would become an all-out war.
Many critics of true crime dramas have always complained they are promoting crime and violence by glorification, an unintended consequence of American entertainment industries. These shows can have other interesting consequences. The Foreign Bride industry has seen a huge spike in demand for Colombian women. This can be viewed as positive or negative, depending on social perspective.
Foreign Brides, sometimes referred to as “mail order brides”, a term the industry completely rejects, have become a billion dollar a year business. According to industry leaders, Colombia represented only about 3% of the market three years ago. Since the popularity of Narcos, many companies have seen near tenfold increases in men seeking Colombian wives.
A Foreign Affair (AFA), a company that helps men find women through international tours, says tours to Colombia are now selling out. AFA arranges group tours where 10 to 20 men travel together to Medellin, Cartagena or Barranquilla. During the tour, they attend arranged Social events where the men meet hundreds of beautiful Colombian women looking for marriage. Women can also place their profiles on the AFA web site, in the hopes of finding a husband.
Kenneth Agee, the marketing director for AFA says, “Because of the show we are doubling our tours to Medellin for next year. Narcos has brought a lot of attention to the intense beauty of Colombian women. Although the show is often very violent, the women of Colombia come across as very family oriented and loyal. These values seem harder and harder to find in this world. I would have to agree, because of the interest in Narcos, we even added an excursion to where Pablo’s self-built prison was located, in the hills overlooking Medellin.
The crowning of 2015 Miss Universe Paulina Vega put Barranquilla, Colombia on the map. Barranquilla now has recognition for being home to some of the most beautiful and talented women in the world. Not only is Miss Universe from here, Grammy Award winning pop singer Shakira, and actress Sofia Vergara also call Barranquilla home. Vergara stars on the ABC series Modern Family as Gloria Delgado-Pritchett. She’s been nominated for 4 Golden Globe Awards, 4 Prime time Emmy Awards, and 7 Screen Actors Guild Awards, all stemming from this role. In 2014, she was ranked as the 32nd Most Powerful Woman in the world by Forbes.
David from Mesa AZ says he met more qualified women in one week than he has during the last 10 years. In 2010, Lisa Ling and the Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN) filmed a one hour show on the AFA tour called “Online Brides – Our America with Lisa Ling.” Even Lisa Ling was surprised by the beauty and sincerity of the women from Barranquilla.
Janet Davis, head of a women’s rights group says “AFA is just taking advantage of women from these third world countries. This is no different than Pablo trafficking in narcotics, but these companies traffic women.” Proponents refer to a Report (INTERNATIONAL MATCHMAKING ORGANIZATIONS: A REPORT TO CONGRESS) that these marriages have much lower divorce rates and abuse rates compared to traditional domestic marriages. This data makes international dating similar to a woman in the US joining eHarmony to look for a husband.
23-year-old Viviana, from Cartagena, says “I come to these events because I know the men attending are serious about marriage, they are faithful and are good to family. For Colombian women, it is the most important thing, good husband and good family.
Kenneth says, “It has not been all rosy. Narcos has brought us some problems. In Cartagena, we have several Penthouses we rent out. One was originally owned by “Don Diego” head of the Norte Del Velle Drug Cartel, the other by Pablo’s people. Over the past year, the properties have been tracked down by individuals thinking they will find large qualities of cash hidden, thus we sometimes find holes all over the walls after a tenant leaves.
For Narcos fans, those who love the gangster genre, or just those who just like seeing beautiful Latin women, there’s good news; Netflix’s has confirmed Season 3 and 4.
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I was married to a Colombian woman for 9 years and yes they cheat. She was 16 yrs. younger than me. When she married me I was fairly whealthy, I lost most of my assets in real estate when the economy went south in 2008,2009. She stayed for 2 and a half more years with me and I was not improving our economic situation fast enough, she was having to use her money from her job to help pay our bills and could not send money back to her family in Colombia. I was in college going to school to work in a lab in a hospital, lot of studying. I had income coming in from rentals, but she said it was not enough, I needed a full tome job also. She got a tummy tuck, and left 3 months later. I found out later that she was cheating with a Mexican truck driver that worked in the company she worked for. Now she lives in a trailer park in Texas with the fat Mexican truck driver, Tummy tuck not needed. She had been cheating for about a year with this guy. Cheating is normal for Colombian men and women. She would never discuss our marriage problems with me, if I tried she would mad, she was also violent she hit and slapped me about 8 times while we were married. No talking just go right into cheating. Colombian women are Gold Diggers , they like older men, but wealthy older men. On modern family Sofia’s old husband is wealthy, she would not look 2 times at him if was not wealthy. They are real pieces of SHIT.
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Read the comments above carefully. I’ve been to Colombia many times and yes, the women are sluts. Go ahead and screw them silly but never marry one!
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Dumb ass whiteboys
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You stupid whiteboys need to stay in USA and live with your money grubbing, materialistic white women.
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and jane snouter you can stay in presumably colombia with your coke whores
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I am happily married to a stunningly attractive Brazilian wife for the past 16 years and through my wife I have got to know many ladies from all over Latin America.
Stereotyping women based upon the pond life inhabiting pubs or nightclubs in Bogota or Rio is frankly ridiculous because the same types exist everywhere in the world.
If you insist upon picking up women in nightclubs or if you go to these countries and behave like a sexual predator then what do you expect?
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Mean psicopathic gold diggas. They will hit and marry any fool with money, fuck everyone else they can and have the courage to shit on the other man’s wife that they cheat on with. They are extremely envious about all women brighter and hotter than them and they will do anything to destroy those women lives. I am chilled about any nationality. But colombians always proved me to be mean, ignorant, arrogant hoes with some sorta mental illness.
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Well you have definitely scared me as I was sicking a online relationship with a Colombian girl. Yes you can call me a dumb fuck. Thanks for sharing your experience.
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i couldnt agree more i have one ,she is pregnant and im sure she cheatex on me while pregnant as well.
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