Alternate Title: Colombian Infidelity Statistics
All Colombian women cheat – this is a common belief among expats in Colombia. I’ve been hearing it from gringos ever since moving to Bogota, but I dismissed it to sample bias — gringos meeting mostly girls of lower moral fiber. If you make friends partying in La Candelaria and Zona Rosa doing cocaine and ecstasy, what do you think you’re going to get?
In college I met almost exclusively family-type, “good girl” Latinas from the top 1% of social classes in Brazil to Peru. But you’re not going to meet those girls snorting coke at Ceci’s. So I thought the infidelity perception was an anomaly due to sampling bias.
But that changed over time. I think Latin America is a little more unfaithful than what Gringolandia would consider normal, which I attribute to the Catholic Church prohibiting divorce, and Colombia even more unfaithful than that, which I attribute to it being a den-of-sin kind of culture.
Then I came across this hard-copy article in El Tiempo from March of last year: América Latina, territorio infiel. The article says that not only does greater Latin America cheat a lot, but Colombia leads the region. How can I argue with the national letter of record?
Highlights:
Six of every 10 Latin Americans (63%) admit to having cheated at least once … Colombians seem to be the most unfaithful in the region … 66% of [Colombian] men and women admit to having cheated at least once.
The article isn’t as interesting as the statistics, and unfortunately the El Tiempo archive online doesn’t include those. So here are my picks, plus screenshots of the hard copy so you can see them all.
- 10.5% of Latin Americans would like to have sex more than seven times a week
- 9.2% of Latin Americans are currently cheating
- 45.2% of Latin women have never cheated
- 40.8% of Colombian women have never cheated
- 51% of Latin men have paid for sex
- 13.7% of Latin men’s first sexual experience was with another male
- 47.5% of Latin Americans have participated in trios or group sex
- 9.1% of Latin Americans currently participate in trios or group sex
- Colombian trio / group sex percentages are higher than greater Latin America
- 22.3% of Latin Americans had their first sexual experience before 16 years old
- 63% of Latin Americans grew up in homes where sex was never discussed
After reading this article, I started thinking about the dealings I’ve had with Colombian women, and I think a majority had boyfriends. From the very first Colombian girl I made out with to the current booty call.
So maybe there is something to the saying …
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I’ve pretty assumed that most Latinas I’ve met/been with had something else going on when I’ve met them. I also assume that they’ve got something else going on when they’re with me. As long as I get what I’m looking for, I really couldn’t give a damn. Hell, let the other guy pony up for some her entertainment/shopping needs. Kind of like “anonymous girlfriend cost/sharing”. Then again, that’s just another word for “puta”……
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If you ever marry a Colombian woman, it would a discrete DNA test would be approrpriate if you have children.
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yup you pissed my wife off with this one
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Interesting post. In a culture that is sexually permissive to the point of 14 yr old age of consent, legal prostitution, lots of cocaine present, and poverty in general, it stands to reason that there would be a good deal more sexual activity. I think that men have often cheated in Latin Culture because it is almost expected and women accept it as a reality. Many times the woman is in NO place to eject her man from the home, so she has to accept it.
This widespread thinking, though, would necessarily lead women to the idea that fucking whoever they want is just as acceptable, especially in the age of condoms and abortion clinics and penecillin. Not sure how abortion works down there??
The other factor, a primary one that can be instrumental in fidelity is religious beliefs, and much of Latin America is either faithless or Catholic… so the faithless ones lack any reason to be ‘faithful’ except for consequences that could happen if caught… and the Catholics are the biggest whores of all (and drinkers too)
Add in the mind-altering substance factor, and its easy to see how infidelity could be terribly widespread.
I do recall a monger on a forum talking about how these chicks will even talk to their boyfriends on the phone or email them DURING sex, or right before or after. Then she hangs up the phone and they have a good laugh about the dumbass sucker who thinks he has himself a sweet little girlfriend, as she sucks the monger’s dick.
I think the combination of choosing a woman of some character and principle…. as well as “training a bitch” on how things are going to be can give you much better odds of having a sexually faithful girlfriend… but in the end, we have to accept the same thing those latin american wives have to accept… that no matter how good you are, or how good life is with you…. that they just might end up fucking someone extracurricular.
problem is, it makes it really hard to love a girl and invest in her as much as we might like, knowing that. It does require some adaptations from traditional thinking, which can be good, but also can become a disappointing compromise.
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I actually read a similar story to this last year. Can’t remember where it was but it was somewhere online. I’ll try to dig it up…
This is interesting “13.7% of Latin men’s first sexual experience was with another male”. You should discuss.
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You seem to have a special taste for whores. For sure you were doing sluts in the US, and now you are hitting at the local perras.
Good luck and use condoms.
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Also you have to consider the white people double moral factor. This is just another racist article from this guy.
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@ Steph – I imagine that 13.7% figure is the same across countries and cultures.
@ Moni – I actually want a nice, clean family with a healthy wife someday. But in the mean time and in-between time till Ms. Right, it’s unfortunately been a lot of Ms. Right Nows 😦
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The women cheating just seems to be a part of the culture. I can’t really speak, I have never been completely faithful to anyone, especially when distance is factored in. That being said, I’m 90% certain the girl I have in Colombia is honest, and not cheating, but what do I know? But even when I cut her off financially, she still talked to me everyday, so she is probably the real deal. It doesn’t hurt that her whole family talks to me. But I don’t find the statistics hard to believe. Women will do what they have to, to get what they want. They want clothes, a good home, and other nice things, and I want vayjayjay.
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Well, we are not all like that.. I wont defend myself but I am not part of all the stadistics you showed there… the people might say we love partying and drinking and yes, having sex too… But must of Us are very responsable with our sexual lives and choose very well our couple… Im rola and I will defend the women from the capital.. I wont speak about the caleñas, paisas, pereiranas, costeñas, etc… haha
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Well, all I’ve seen of the “costeñas” is that they will do or say anything with no conscience, integrity, or normal dignity seen everywhere else in the world. If she says “you are the only guy I talk with” the truth could very well be that she has many special friends for sex, she is always talking with gringos etc etc saying she is available for their one night visits, and just outright lying about every aspect of her life. I learned the hard way…
I’m smarter now from it and accept I can be like the “normal” guy for those type of women. I even buy a few things for her each time I visit, just so she can feel she’s getting paid.
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OBVIOUSLY they all have boyfriends. Colombian women are genetically incapable of being single for more than a few weeks.
And they are freaky as hell but almost NEVER reveal it on the surface, as opposed to the gringas who talk a big loud game and usually don’t deliver as promised.
I’ve been here 3 years, and have had several trios and 3 full-out orgies. My current gf is totally open and totally bisexual so now things are accelerating even more. 🙂
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Rubito you fall into a weird sub catagory (if you are who I think you are) You don’t count for normal stats in anywhere haha. I dont necessaarily mean that in a bad way.
I like this article I think its interesting but I think the stats are flawed. For instance dudes having their first early homosexual encounters, that high? I would think even if it did happen the dudes (esp Latin dudes) if they were straight would not report it. Plus I mean if you look at the % of actual gay males you might find that 7-10% population for gay males in any country might be average. Not sure though, again there are variables they didn’t touch on, but I think the article sort of suggests that this is straight men having gay contact when indeed its probably gay men having gay contact with a few other exceptions.
The threesome and orgy thing is probably over reported too. I mean how many dudes dream of having it and how many actually have it? I know it happens and I’ve almost pulled it off here in the states a few times, but come on man. There is not way its that high in Colombia.
And for the record, maybe its just me but I think if you look long enough you find what you’re looking for anywhere, but I just have not found Colombianas to be that freaky or wild. Of course they are not LESS freaky than lets say American skanks, but nothing out of the ordinary. In fact I have had a few very boring and conservative Colombianas. I personally have had way more action in Eastern Europe, Central America and even here in the US with women from Central America.
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I do agree with Colombian women and being dishonest…it must be in the DNA. Not even so much just about relationships and sex but just BS in general. I can say though, that of all Latino’s Peruvians are THE WORST liars I have met so far. Colombians next. I simply dont see that with some other Latin populations.
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My Paisa wife says this is true and that I had better be very very very careful and cautious when alone in Colombia.
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Colombian women just like most women around the globe are whores, sluts and feminists. You either have the manginas that f*** these women or responsible men who not only stay away from these women but all women.
Sex, like any other street drug ruins lives…. yours, mine and any innocent children that may come from it. We are on the wrong side of history to be associating with members of the opposite sex. Misandrist Marxist laws in the West (and coming soon to a third world country near you), are destroying the lives of good men. Co-dependency is another drug that causes destroyed lives, incarcerations and many suicides. To good men….stay away from any form of relationship with members of the opposite sex. No man is safe within 500 yards of a woman. Alpha and upper Beta manginas will spout how they have constant relationships or sex with women and come out of it unscathed. They get away with it (for now), because they are higher up on the ladder system. Don’t envy them and don’t follow their paths.
Find peace within yourself. Live alone or with a best (man) friend. Go out and work at a job (employment) that you do best. Focus on your talents and hobbies. Get a couple of pets. Don’t seek happiness. Seek Peace Of Mind. “Happiness” is nothing more than a shallow emotion that is here today and gone tomorrow. If you “can’t live without sex”, go out and get some head meds to help cope with keeping that drive under control.
I came across a satirical Wikiblog regarding Colombian women. Although it is crude and set in a humorous context, it is quite sad. Not sad because of how it is said, but sad because 99% of what is written there is true. Whoever wrote this obviously experienced what Colombian women are really like first-hand.
http://uncyclopedia.wikia.com/wiki/User:Jwsd10/Columbian_Women
The world’s concept of Colombia is that it filled with guerrilla terrorism and the cultivation and export of street drugs. Unfortunately, the world does not know that the guerrilla style terrorism which is most common, is that which the Colombian women commit. The world needs to be made aware of the fact that Colombian women are domestic terrorists who rampantly commit domestic violence against their boyfriends, husbands and children and the street drug these women cultivate and export is sex.
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I suspect that these statistics are similar in the United states. approximately 60% of people cheat in Colombia…I know I’ve heard similar numbers for the US….Aside from that your attitude toward women is appaling! If women cheat/sleep around they are whores/bitches but it certainly sounds like you do it…what does that make you?
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MORETE – I was recently informed that your ideas are what would be classified by the PUA / seduction community as a MGHOW (man going his own way).
KHARY – Thank you for reading and participating in the conversation.
However regarding your comment: “your attitude toward women is appaling! If women cheat/sleep around they are whores/bitches …”
You won’t find me referring to women as “whores” (unless they’re prostitutes) or “bitches” except rarely in the context of “silly bitches” displaying naive or clueless behavior.
I believe American statistics are similar in males’ first sexual experience being with another male, but NOT infidelity. The difference is divorce. In Catholic Latin America almost nobody divorces, so cheating is common. In Gringolandia divorce is common, so cheating is less so because there’s less reason to stay together. No doubt gringo cheating happens, but nowhere near the level of Latin America (of which Colombia seems the regional leader).
But if you consider divorcing your wife and lying with another woman to be adultery, as said Jesus, as is the policy of the Catholic Church, then US infidelity’s probably higher.
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Hi it is good to read yes all over the world it has good women and bad ones also men like wise . In my country Trinidad all women love you for your money no money no love. You have money they will stay with you plenty sex and love.When the money done she gone, plus beside you it also have a next man that she likes how he do it better than you ALSO give her more money than you, it is like a competition with men on who can out do the other .All Caribbean or most women is the same blasted thing. i will like to try a latin woman may stand a better chance.
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most likely you tried extremely hard to get with colombian girl and
FAILED!!!! your a very sad individual to addresses women in this fashion. sucks to be you. hey, dont ever walk the streets of colombia cua you wont come out alive. you should post a picture of youself if you feel man enough to back up ur comments bitch.
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That was the all-time dumbest of over 1500 comments on this blog – no small task indeed, and dumb on different levels.
FYI – my About page features my picture plus links to my FB, LinkedIn, and Twitter. In the posts there are more pictures of me and ample information on where I hang out and even where I get my hair cut.
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Hahaha, I like how Anonymous calls you a bitch and to be “man enough to post a pic”, yet this guy (assuming it’s a guy) doesn’t have the balls to put down his own name.
Poser-ass hater bitch.
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Hahahaha. “Don’t ever walk the streets of Colombia cua(sic) you won’t come out alive”. I sure don’t remember ever having a problem hanging out with Colin in areas of Medellin that most locals wouldn’t/don’t dare go to after dark.
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Latinas love sex and you got to be a vigorious sex machine to please them!That’s why most marriages between gringo north american men and latin-american women(you can throw brazilians in this category also) dont last long!I recently went to a wedding in Miraflores where a stupid dorky mid-western no spanish speaking man was marrying a chola and I swear I was hounding the couple with some quite negative comments by stating that neither of them were the ideal match to be together as a coupleNorth american men need to be with north american women and that’s all there is to it!”QUE VIVA LA RAZA NORTE-AMERICAN”SOMOS LOS MEJORES DE TODAS LAS AMERICAS MIENTRAS LAS OTRAS SON DE FRACASOS SIN LA EXCEPCIONS DE LOS CHILENOS Y LOS ARGENTINOS!!!
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Yep….been living here for four years and me and EVERY foreigner I know will say, when it comes down to it, all Colombian women are lying scumbag sluts. Regardless of class, status, or income, they will always cheat with pretty much any foreigner who is even remotely attractive, buy them a beer, and give themm 45 minutes of attention. They lie about everything, and are very bad at it. I have heard them lie constantly about things that they have absolutely no reason to lie about. They will say they are watching Simpsons, when really they are watching Family Guy, just for the pure sake of lying. One more thing. They ALL say that they have been with between one and three guys in their life, yet after an hour and a half they want to go home with you. I think they are confusing the word “life” with “past week.”
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Well this in an interesting topic but i will reply to it another day Mr-Gringo-with-a-funny-hat (Colin). For now im gonna reply to Mike’s comment. You are right, lying in colombia is the everyday activity. Is part of the average colombian mindset. People lie for everything, not just women, men also. a good example you gave was the simpsons show. There is a book i would recommend to Mike and even to everyone who is living in colombia including Mr-Gringo-with-a-funny-hat called “¿Como somos los colombianos?” by German Puyana, Sorry no translation is aviable, THE LIE is an entire chapter. Why ppl do lie for everything? IDK thats a question i havent found an answer yet. Maybe Mr-Gringo-with-a-funny-hat -who-knows-alot-about-colombianas could tell us.
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Interesting post, but what’s with the title? As you note in the actual post, about 40% of Colombian women report *never* having cheated. Now I’d presume the actual percentage is somewhat lower (I don’t trust self-reported surveys, especially on a topic like this), but what justifies the categorical statement “All Colombian women cheat”? Especially when the article linked reports that the percentage of Colombian men who report never having cheated is much lower. If we must over-generalize, why not just say “All Colombians cheat”?
“I believe American statistics are similar in males’ first sexual experience being with another male, but NOT infidelity.”
^Is this based on any kind of evidence, or just a hunch? Now granted reliable statistics here are going to be really hard to come by (people often lie on surveys, and the percentage of people lying will presumably vary across cultures, making cross-country comparisons really difficult). But (some) studies suggest that in 30-60% of US marriages, there is some kind of infidelity:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infidelity
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Prophet, thanks for the book rec. I’ll check it out. And that hat is BOGOTA!
Observer – the title is what I’ve heard countless gringos say, so a quote if you will. And yes intentionally provocative. And I included “I believe” because it is, in fact, just a hunch.
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I agree with the poster above who said that Peruvians are the biggest liars of all! The one I dated for some 6 months was a compulsive liar and an alcoholic. Was totally f***ed up from all the drugs and alcohol aswell as all the loser she had spent her life hanging around. Had no shame in lying to my face about everything from chatting with her ex (who I had told her not to cos he was tryin’ to get back with her), her father supposedly being of British royal lineage and even daring to drink behind my back after she fell pregnant when she knew not to. Peruvian women are the biggest low lives you could ever come across and should be avoided like the plague!
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The other angle to consider refers to my theory that latin people—men in particular—never mentally progress past the age of 14 or so. All of ’em, doctors, business executives, and the goofballs selling peliculas in the street.
And cheating and lying is what children do.
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BEFORE WE PASS JUDGEMENT ON ANOTHER CULTURE WE NEED TO CHECK ARE OWN,THERES BAD APPLES IN ALL BUNCHES, NONE OF US ARE PERFECT ..AMERICAN OR COLOMBIAN……
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Actually I agree with a lot…Colombian men are definatley manwhores but their first intercourse is usually with a donkey. They are all expert liars and will lie about anything and everything just for kicks.
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hi, im just read u comment about colombian women, i am colombian , and i married and English man, we are together for 8 year and we have 3 kiss, i have never cheat him, i do love him so much, i do believe in love, and i think every person when are in love, dont think in cheating, i feel sorry for u boys, because u haven’t found the perfect women, and if u us i have cheat any of my ex-boyfriends?, yes i did, but i did realice i wasnt in love of them, and i think too all women are the same in any culture. yes we are,,, English, american, Indian. Latina, etc igual
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I made the major mistake of marying a colombian woman, Jessica Gonzalez Surez from Barranquilla, Colombia. Shortly after I married her, her personality change dramatically. After I told her that I had doubts about her love for me and had second thoughs about going through with financing her green card, she called the police on me alleging abuse and filed a restraining order in which she stated numerous lies of physical abuse. I have since filed for divorce and believe that she is either in hiding somewhere in the U.S. or returned to Colombia.
I advise any American plannning on marrying a Colombian woman to tred very carefully, as my experience has turned into nightmare after spending many thousands of dollars and pouring out my heart to this woman.
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Latinas are like orchids: best not removed from their native habitats.
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Addressing people who say this or that culture are the biggest liars, there are liars and cheats all over the world if they cheat you once and your still talking to the your a bitch.
At the person who said my girl lied to me about simpsons etc, are you serious? You called that woman your girlfriend? No wonder other types of men are having their way lol
Many simps and bitch boys writing on here complaining.
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Im nice person and I like girls
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Thats horrible to say that, 60% of latin girls ive met have been awsome fun to talk to beautiful towards you at first nice big smile catholic not full on party girls and love family, if your going for girls who have big tits dolled faces flirty facebook photos 24 and talking to you if your 30 what do you expect my amigas are marraige and relationship material and never have boyfriends and any guy they dated have gotten the boot really fast, im only 21 so im not interested in a relationship until im like 25/26 but who knows something might happen but there loads of great girls over there compared to Australia or America all i can say is take it slow be friends for a long time and make it clear before your even bf gf that if you were in a relationship with a girl there you wouldnt take her back to your country if you do thats just opening yourself up to disaster on so many levels, same rules as dating a girl inside your own country only that in a poor country the bad people are more bad and the fakes and liars and more fake and ful of more lies than back home, ive had latin gf’s who i just kept for fun because i knew they were liars, fake crying sleeping around saying the guys are their cousins and laughing internet cutting out on skype when someone walks threw the door or theyre going out beign suspicious with their phones its so obvious to spot a liar even if you do some digging before you go out and you find out a whole load about them facebook is perfect for this!
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Hello, I am european and that the way it is for me.
Ohhhh, it is obvious. Latin women is hot and attractive when she is young, till 35 years old, after that her beauty burns out and she turns into witch, ugly,dark, burned out witch. To much hotness they have, and those type of women can not be truthful, they all do cheat. Based on my experience, i would say never flash your money, but if you want to fuck her it is impossible not to spend some money, so that where the game starts. Her mission is to pull out of you as maximum comfort as possible, and she does not give a shit what you are thinking,wanting etc, she has her comfort zone what you have to satisfy, if you dont, she will find very easy how do drop you off. Regarding cheating, i do not want to even talk about this, i have cought around 30 colombian whores that i fucked cheating on me with some other amigos.I fucked a lot of women, may be around 500 in total or more, so i am very experienced in this, i can see which flower has fresh soul and which is hard as wood. The most interesting is, that young bitches around 20 years old, especially Colombians are already fucked on their head because it is in their blood, it is their nature to do whatever they want to do. So wrong region guys, do not even dig in Latin America for truth or reliable latin woman, all bitches that grew up in Latin America are whores, except if they were only from rich family.Rich family girls are different, those cunts can be reliable, but smart bitch in the house is even worse than to be on your own. Get the money, as soon as you have it, enjoy Latin cunts, talk sweet to them, buy them real flowers, buy fake gifts, fake rolex watches, fake Dolce & Gabanna perfumes and so on, protect yourself, do not waste time on them, as soon as you fucked her, drop her off, if the pie was good, keep on playing with it with fake attention and keep your distance with a lot of lies, never tell the truth, never, just lie constantly and fuck them. I would suggest do not waste on her more than 2 weeks, that the best time after the first fuck, everything after that is extra game that causes some headache. That the way i live, ofcourse i make brakes sometimes but in general only money give me drive, the more i have the more i want to fuck, and Latin bitches are the best about it, easy to get and a lot of really naughty whores that do fuck and suck and lick really good. I will never have a single woman, i will keep on fucking them as long as have my balls. Good luck!
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Well said and straight forward.
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How fuckin depressing… I think I’m gonna blow my brains out…..
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@ Pedro, cold but true! Latin women go bad fast. The only advice that I can offer is that if you hook up with a Latina that you like, doesn’t matter if she is a working girl or civilian – make an effort to meet her mother. That will be your glimpse into the future because they all become their mothers in the end. It’s important to remember that Latinas look to their daughters for financial security and provide pimp like coaching . Even though you may be fucking the daughter, you will end up financing the mother. Women in general are aware of their biological clocks and they all know that they have an expiration date stamped on their asses. For men, as long as we wake up with a hard on it’s going to be a good day! That being said, women are competitive . The goal is to hook your ass one way or another into financing her pension plan. I’ve had long term relationships with Latinas from Mexico to Argentina, both civilians and hoes. The hookers hands down are the most honest of the two groups and make better girlfriends! Rent my brothers, don’t buy.
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My first time in Medellin Colombia was last month. I met this gorgeous 25 year old on Latin cupid.com. She met me at the airport with her mother.the first night together she screwed like a porno star but her mother would not let her stay all night with me the entire time I was there, which was only 7 days. During my flight between Panama and Medellin her Facebook was conveniently hacked and she set up a new FB account. We had several disagrments during my time allowed with her. She’s gorgeous but speaks no English we used the phone translator to communicate which was very awkward until it came time to get horizontal. Could it be possible that she is working in a sex club or had someone close to her residential area she could be staying with considering her mother told me she was a house girl and she cannot stay out past 9pm. But here’s the kicker to this truthful experience, she wants me to come back to Colombia and that she will stay with me every night I am there. Yes I gave her money yes she told me it was expensive to live in Colombia but I had the currency figured out my first day there after handing her $500.00 to change currency but never seen a penny from that cash exchange and she had no money the next day. She wants to stay in llaurles in a hotel but I found an apartment close to her residential area for a lot less then a hotel and she said no way I want llaurles so guys let me hear some in put in regards to this high dollar Latina. Thanks
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Dude.mmmm contact me
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Peruvian women are also cheaters and liars
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I have traveled through L America from Juarez, Mexico to Santiago, Chile, you can tell what these women are after, just pay attention. You’ll know if u beat her @ her own game, she will become furious, demand restitution for her time, and you will become public enemy #1 until the next sap comes along, then ur a distant memory. Play it suave my brethern, take what u can get and get the F$#% out of dodge. Just plz remember leave the married women alone, there are $20 sicarios available who could care less about puttin’ a cap in a gringos melon for the right price. Lying is a latin cultural thing. It is instilled since childhood, but more than just lying, deceitfulness in general is acceptable. You need a favor, a couple of Abes or Hamiltons between the papers moves people quick! Bribes are expected, and received as part of the negociation. Sad as it may be, so goes life down south. I believe another reason is, most Latin American governments are based on the spanish model, one of the most corrupt of Europe!!
Sorry if I went on too long. Out.
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Losers!!!
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hahaha so why the f#$% are u stupid gringos looking for Colombian b#$%% ohh i know why???? Because you have never been fucked as good as a Colombian has f$%^%^&you. you dream of having a Colombian Wife, but you realized you cannot keep up with us, so you have to talk crap about us to make yourself feel good. I am calena and im married to a gringo a black gringo of course. We have a very good relation ship and I do not cheat because i feel completely satisfied. it is not Colombians fault if you cannot satisfied them.
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Wow. This was a real eye opener. I knew colombian women were prone to cheating but i didn’t know it was so VICIOUSLY BAD !!!! And the habitual lying !!!! wow !!! i mean lying constantly it’s just boggles the mind !!! I live in california and the Latino population here have stigma of lying,dishonesty, and being unfaithful. But the perception is it’s a moderate increase compared to other ethnic minorities like the Armenians, the Persians, Asians, Arabs that also live in California. But anyways i 100% agree with the comment above about Renting and never buying. I personally don’t do either. ***I LEASE !!!!**** i go to these international dating sites land myself a hot ukranian woman. Have her live with me for 4 or 5 years and if i may add i am a true gentlemen during this whole time. I pay for 100% of the rent, pay for the food, pay for her health insurance, get her enrolled in a technical school so she can support hersel later, buy her occasional gifts and then when i get tired fucking her and want a new fresh piece of ass. I divorce her. Yah there is alot of crying on her part but in the end she got not so bad of a deal. She is out of her 3rd world country shit hole, is a U.S. citizen, can speak english, and has a decent job as a Pharmacy Technician. Everything is prenuped to the last silverware so im completely protected. And the moment she leaves i get a new piece of ass. —– I was actually thinking of going colombian this next time around and get myself a big piece of colombian ass but i don’t know. I mean i really don’t care if she cheats only if does it by the 4th year or 5th year of the marriage so i can use that cheating as an exuse to divorce her. But with so many reports of colombian women going haywire and making up lies of assault or rape when something happens that isn’t favorable to them i may have to rig my apartment with Nanny-cameras as an extra security measure to protect myself in front of the cops. My question what do your guys think about me marrying a Colombian woman for 4 or 5 years and then divorcing her ass ???? you think i can ride out this bronco ???
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Dont put yourself in a position to end up in jail i have a pending case now. She dropped charges but state picks it up. so far im in the hole 8 grand . bail,attorney fees ect. and counting ive lost my job and im having to sell my house here in miami. Fuck em but dont live together by anymeans or get her pregnant you will be FUCKED FOR LIFE take my experience. 99.9 % of these stories here are right on the spot. Save yourself Im already screwed.
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My ex has taken up with a 26 year old Colombian Spanish girl this year he is 45 British man and he ended our relationship of 22 years quick to put the house on the market I believe if he marries her it will be in Colombia i believe she can’t stay in Malaga for very long and I know he has got visa paperwork I think he might be bringing her to live in the uk do you think this is possible scam on her behalf and he hasn’t seen it because he is besotted?
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wow…
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This is funny to me because I recently met a Colombian girl from Barranquilla and she lies a lot. She’s not a bad girl but was afraid to be honest with me. Either way I really couldn’t care less because we fuck like 5 times every time I see her. For all you shit talkers who say gringos can’t keep up, your girl never fucked me or she wouldn’t be your girl and that’s the true true, lmao
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Esto es ridiculo. Como pueden tipificarnos de esta manera? Si es cierto que hay mujeres que no se respetan ni tampoco respetan a sus parejas. Pero tambien es cierto que habemos muchas mas mujeres que amamos, nos entregamos totalmente a nuestra pareja (esposo, novio, prometido), que somos buenas madres y muy atentas con nuestras familias. Somos mujeres que luchamos todo el tiempo por hacer lo mejor.
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The men who comment here are those that are or dream of going to Colombia just to get his dirty sexual fantasies. Obvious that only seek prostitutes and that is the only thing they find.
It’s like the narco traffickers seeking drug users, where they would go to find them? The answer is easy with strangers!
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Hey, who wouldn’t want to f### any latina women. They are hot, got great ass, boobs and know how to move.
Its your own fault for choosing something we all want a piece off.
And we ALFA males are here for that very reason. To please our opposite sex in time of need. Similar to the animal kingdom yes!
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Just wanted to say I was in Bogota stayed at hotel tequendama crown plaza. Was 160 bucks a night had steam room jacuzzi sauna and indoor pool and italian restaurant downstairs. I met all the colombian women I had sex with on colombiancupid.com great site by the way for meeting hot girls. (colombian girls) I had sex with 9 girls in 14 days. I had to pay the hotel desk 40 bucks for each guest so my room was really 200 a night. anyways met a awesome guy owns colombian restaurants on 2nd and 3rd floor about 4 blocks away. super nice guy. I went to the casino there and had everyone having fun. The women we had super sex and great dinners The guards security were always laughing at me for bringing a new girl up. My cock hurt when I returned back to USA. Anyways They are awesome women. I do not call them sluts because we both wanted the sex everytime. Im moving to Medellin and retiring there. Im retired Marine. I get 2800 a month so This should be good. I do want a wife and couple kids. Will see what happens. Just show them respect and You will be Loved. Some are money hungry and forget those. Some want serious love. I Recommend colombian women 100% Hope this helps Semper Fi Dan
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Dan,
I have missed out on a bang load of sex. Fuck must be great. How did you get these women. You contacted colombiancupid.com before your trip then turned up in colombia?
VInny
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My dads family is from Colombia but I grew up with my mothers family (they’re Italian American) and all I can say is yes my Colombian family from colombia, not my americanized family, is very fun but they alllll have cheated (men and women) and lie. And my dad wants me to get together with a Colombian dude. Ya…. That’s never going to happen.
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Hey,
I married a Colombian “home body” beautiful woman about 2 years ago (we had been together for 5 years in total). However, she has cheated on me, lied to me and played me like a fool. They use religion as a cover, and when they talk spanish in front of you, usually they are talkin about you or do not want you to hear what they are saying… I now speak spanish and I learned that the hard way. They pretend to be classy and in English they do not swear, but in spanish they have trucker mouths… Lying and cheating is verified in my experience.
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Add one to the list. The funny thing is I read this article when we still were together and I thought; nooo my girl is different. BS,,,they all cheat and it doesn’t matter how good of a hubby/boyfriend you are, it’s in their blood. STAY AWAY FROM COLOMBIAN WOMEN OR JUST FUCK THEM AND DUMB THEM. NO RELATIONS AND IF YOU HAPPEN TO MARRY ONE, I SAY YOU’RE THE DUMBEST ********!
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…and I’m not talking about my ‘ex’ only, once she accidentally left her email open and I read all the filthy messages of her Colombian friends and they just brag about fucking married men with kids and cheating their own boyfriends. Absolutely shocking stuff.
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Hmm. Interesting.
I was briefly married to a Colombian woman but decided to divorce her almost as soon as I married her. I don’t know if she’d ever cheat since I didn’t give her the chance to cheat. I got rid of her because she was way too emotional and moody for me. It may sound strange, but I married her as the best way to quickly get rid of her and get her back to Colombia where she could do me no financial harm. It turns out she did try to stick me with financial support but failed because she had already left the US.
I don’t know if it’s a bad idea to marry a Colombian women or any other women for that matter. Think American women don’t cheat? Ha, better think again!
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Ha, my story is terrible. I fell in love, blindly like a fool.So i am in europe she in Colombia.What happened, i sold my car, i sold my flat, i gave everything i earned to her.And when i left with 34 dollars in my pocket, she dumped me like a trash.I never cheated, i was my best to her, but she was ignorant to me, she did a camwhore job behind my back, probably other dudes visited her, i spotted something is wrong but was hoping that may be i am wrong, hell no, i was right. She has a bitch sister that was controlling my relationships through her. Anyway i received extremely good lesson, they ripped me off to the bone. Run, run away from Colombian woman, never date a poor bitch, i did a mistake but i am back on track, still mentally not OK after such a trick, i thought she is the one my Love.Everything they need is benefits, they will adopt to curcumstances on their terms. Wrong women as a wife, dont even think about it. Remember they just want to enjoy and laugh, they are born natural prostitutes. Cant rely on them, if you will get sick, she will leave you to die on your own in loneliness and herself will get another dude same day to keep on laughing.
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Mmmm my husband cheat on me with a colombian girl now we r divorce she s pregnant and im just waiting to see what its gpimf to happen, even though i told her he was married she stayed with him now she s pregnant and about to live in the house we used to share ;(
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Can I ask you if it was all of a rush by him as my ex has taken up with a 26 year old he 45 British we had been together 22 years he lied about the affair now I know he has visa or immagration paperwork and I think he will marry her in Colombia and bring her back to the uk I don’t think she has qualifications I would like your feed back please
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I think I believe you..
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There’s 2 kinds of colombian women: those that WANT to be PUTAS, and those that HAVE to be PUTAS! jejeje
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You guys are full of crap. If you visit bars and nightclubs, of course you are going to get screwed and then get screwed again! I can tell you that there are millions of woman around the world with the same agenda. If you think that Colombian women are all the same, you’re dreaming and you need to snap out of it.
What I would suggest, is that you keep your little dick in your pants and stay at home with the over-demanding and feeble minded women in your own country (wherever that is)
Because you’ve had a bad experience, you want to tar all with the same brush? I’ve been married twice in the past. Once to an American woman, once to a South African woman and had nothing but trouble. I got screwed financially and emotionally. So, do I say all Americans and South African women are bad??
The answer lies within you own mind. Go go to a bar looking for true love…it ain’t gonna happen fellas!! Wake up.
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I think majority of the problems dealing with Colombian women are due to foreign men expecting these women to fall into the good and obedient wife stereotype without knowing them well enough before marriage. Most of these women grow up into a harsh life of little opportunity and some need to hustle to survive. Many are treated like crap by their local men and when a gringo comes along offering everything he can in exchange for a good and faithful housewife, the Colombia woman automatically feels entitled to step over the guy and squeeze the most benefit out of him as possible while holding him close as she can without many freedoms.
The bottom line is you can take a woman out of her misery but you can’t take the misery out of the woman. Most of them have more street smart and sexual experience than what we perceive them to have. Avoid Costenas for long term marriage because they are the most moody, lazy and ignorant women in that country. Paisas make the best housewives and tend to be hard workers, but you better be damn sure about the kind of life they live when you’re not around, because there is way too much gringo influence and greed going on in that part of the country tempting the ladies to cheat.
In short, I love Colombian women due to their femininity and charm. I believe majority of them can be good wives and offer more than american women. However, foreign men visiting Colombia are generally blind to inner features and needs of these women. Avoiding gold diggers, women previously engaged to foreigners, desperately poor women without jobs, women with bastard children, women with low education that cannot write properly in Spanish, controlling, easily jealous, paranoid, and dating website regulars are usually a good start to finding someone nice. Also remember, good sex and nice body only means she has had alot of partners or started out very early, or both.
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I did comment above and looks like the owner of this page corrected it a bit, what your problem Colin. The bitch I was involved with was Cindi. And her sister is DIana. Leave my comment here, I will deal with any motherfucker. Colin it is not your problem this names, it is my story and that what it was.
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If men will seek whores find whores in Colombia, in USA, in China, wherever.If will seek wifes DON’T GO TO WHOREHOUSES. DON’T BE STUPIDS
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Interesting comments, i spent 5 months in Columbia and met some pretty neat ladies. I had a great relationship in Bogota and we spent a lot of fun times together, she is older (53)and mature so perhaps that makes a difference, she had a car and took me to many destinations around Bogota. On several occasions she payed and i stayed at her place for many weeks. I do not know where you find these cheating women. Perhaps find one a little more mature.
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Moreto, you don’t sound so much like you’re speaking of men going their own way, as men going the gay way. Find one close male friend, get some pets, and stay far away from women? And you recommend that if a guy still feels like screwing some hot looking chick, he should go out and buy some head meds in order to chemical castrate his desires? WTF?! The responsible thing for a man to do is to wear a condom. Don’t get married. If the woman claims that she’s pregnant, don’t sign any paternity document. That’s looking after yourself.
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all the people that talk bad about we colombians girls are just assholes…. that is bullshit in all the world man and women cheat … or now you will say americans women are the more faithful come on … i can say gringos are more intense and horny all the time… that is not our foult be beautiful and sexy…. here u can find very good women .. that the all fucking paisas are bitchs dont means we all colombians are the same….
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ni shi peng dan!!
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so.. other point if u are a old gringo that come to medellin and u just looking for a girl of 18 or 20 years old… so do you think she will be with u for love? please u know very well if u want to find one girl of this age no only in colombian in any part of the world u will know is for money… we colombians are very good women with persons that are good… but some gringos that come to colombia just come for play with the girls no more because some of them are married in northamerica then who is more terrible??? that all this people say here is just bullshit.
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BRIAN why u say that oh i know because u r happy fucking putas… that is terrible that a man have to pay for sex… here in colombia u can find very good women too caring sweet and very good wife.. i can say much better that the fat gringas 😉
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Hello, I felt compelled to add some words to this form. Yes their are many beautiful women in Columbia. My experience
With Columbian women is that they are very passionate in any intimate setting…more so than any other Latin or Carribean
Country I would say no. Are Columbian women gold diggers…no more than ANY woman from any country. Do Columbian women cheat on their men more than women from other countries no.
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Colombian women are whores!
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Colombian women are whores, and I love it.
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So gringo sex tourists come to Colombia looking for whores and they find them. Then they expect the colombian low women to be nice and treat them like kings, just because they are gringos. They get used and treated like crap and then they say ALL colombian women are prostitutes. How pathetic. A good woman here (beautiful, smart, loyal and independant) is not going to go home with a sex tourist for obvious reasons. But you guys might never even have the chance to meet a girl like that. You are for the low standards (thats what you look for). We colombians know perfectly well why you come here… As we know most of you are losers in your country that come to try success here by going for the poor, ignorant, easy girls. How successful!! Congrats
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Perhaps I can share some light into this topic. I’m a 29 year old Mexican American born and raised living in the United States and have a Colombian girlfriend who lives in Colombia. I have a Masters degree in adult psychology in relationships so please just CONSIDER my opinion. The problems that occurs and will keep occurring in such relationships is….COMPATIBILITY. In Colombia, THE LACK OF SOMETHING INCREASES THE DESIRE FOR IT. So when a foreigner comes to Colombia, girls are intrigued and are interested in knowing who this “AMERICAN” is. They become interested but they disregard all other aspects in life in which they don’t think how life would be if they really married and lived with a gringo. At first they will like the idea and feel like they’re on a pedestal if they were to marry a gringo because they are rare in Colombia, marrying one is like moving up in life. HOWEVER, once the real life starts, problems start to occur because of the disparities among these 2 individuals (these disparities increase when the age difference is that of APPROXIMATELY 12-15 years or more). Everything comes into light in where she realizes that she is not happy and she either wants to move on with her life or wants to return to her country without considering what that gringo did for her in taking her out of the slums. Many women do start to feel SOME TYPE of love for gringos because they take care of them financially, emotionally, and mentally. However, this is not the type of love one should be with another. Nevertheless, the main problem here lies on COMPATIBILITY. Such gringo and such Colombian for the most part are just not….COMPATIBLE. Its like night and day. The way their minds work are very different than that from a white (or any other race other than Latino) foreigner and that is due to culture, tradition, religion, the life experiences, and the surroundings she was exposed to as a child. They are different people from the inside. That’s just the bottom line with different countries, in different continents, hemispheres and etc. There are two people that want to be happy in life but the way of achieving that happiness is by different means. No matter how much a “gringo’ wants to learn Spanish he will always be a gringo and nothing can change that. No matter how perfect a Colombian woman learns English she will always be Colombian; and when I mean she will always be Colombian I mean Colombian in culture, tradition, the way they talk, the way they think and etc. Same goes for when I saw he will always be a “gringo”. Now some for some people it could work. It all depends on the type of person you meet and the type of sacrifices both of you guys are willing to make to make the relationship or marriage work. However, I find it rather easier looking for a dime in a swimming pool. A huge swimming pool I might add. Some do not mind being sex slaves and housewives in return for them eating good everyday, having a roof over their heads and just basically being taken care of. If that is the love you like to seek, I wish you GOODLUCK!!! The gringo doing everything for the Colombian girl is not and will MOST LIKELY never make her fall in love with you. It doesn’t work that way. What makes a person fall in love with an other person is that CHEMISTRY, that CONNECTION, that BOND that you two guys BUILD and have. It doesn’t matter if you paid for her daughters cancer operation and you took her parents out of living under a bridge and you bought them a new house. She will forever love you and be grateful because of what you did for her but she will not be IN LOVE with you because there is no bond, chemistry, or connection. As I stated before I am Mexican American. My girlfriend is Colombian and lives in Colombia. Chemistry, bondage, and connection exists in our relationship. She makes jokes from a soap opera that use to be aired and I’ll understand her jokes because my mom watched the same soap opera and so me understanding her jokes, we both laugh. Although we grew up in different Countries, we grew up watching this same Latin comedy show on Television (El Chavo del 8) and so when we talk about the show and laugh….we bond, we’re connect!!! Little things like those is how a relation nurtures and grows with time. I believe if I wasn’t brought up in a Latino cultural and traditional way and I didn’t speak any Spanish, we wouldn’t bond as much and have less of a connection and wouldn’t have all the similarities that we have. That is why it is a fact that most successful marriage are marriages from the same culture, religion, tradition, and even social status. Those lay a foundation for bondage, chemistry, and connection to exist. I’d would like to wish everyone good luck and success in finding that special someone that makes you happy and gives you a want, need, and/or a desire to live everyday just to see that person and that what makes you feel even HAPPIER is knowing that that person that you feel that way about….FEELS THE EXACT SAME WAY ABOUT YOU!!!!!!!!!!
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To Bravo4
What you fail to understand is that from this article we are talking about Colombian women who cheat. Not who you can connect to or share a bond through a tv show or soap opera. You live in the US and she does not so understand that when your not around she has someone on the side to show her attention, maybe not sexual but sensual. My experience with Colombian women (and I am a faithful man) is that they all seek love, but truly dont know the meaning of it. Colombian women work on a very fast pace even when it comes to falling in love. They do not know how to be alone. They constantly desire attention so they jump from relationship to relationship without letting the sheets cool off. From the way you speak about your relationship about talking about tv shows, that is something you learn about your significant other at the start of a relationship. I will assume that your relationship is not even 6 months old yet. You have yet to view the true magnitude of the damage a Colombian woman will do. It is not their fault though it is the way they were brought up. Colombia is a fast paced sex crazed atmosphere, which is why most Colombian women are sluts and start at a very young age. I know women from Colombia who are not even 25 and have 2-4 kids with multiple men. Colombian women who have 2-3 boyfriends in 1 single year and claims she loved each and every one of them. Colombian women who have children they cannot feed so they send them to be cared for by relatives. Even though they cant feed their own they sure make to make enough time to party hard and post an insane amount of slut pictures on social media sites to seek even more attention of males, which they will completely take off when she sees a man is interested in her for more than a one night stand. Colombian women who aspire or truly thinks she will make it as a model so she enhances her features with plastic surgery that probably was not needed. Colombian women are fucked up mentally but its hard to see it behind their pretty smiles and solid figures and our hard dicks. Some even play their cards right in the beginning by not taking gifts, money, ect. Once they feel a level of comfort the truth will come out. I been there with Colombian women I know it all. It doesnt matter if your Mexican and shes Colombian, your from the US so you are a gringo because you dont know the life of living in Colombia. Sorry to say this but unless your girlfriend is rich with a blossoming career, she could be wanting you to help her to bring her to the US. If your serious about this Colombian woman thats swell but something tells me you will one day be on this article again expressing how your ex screwed you because the fact of the matter is, if you thought so well about your Colombian girlfriend, you wouldnt be searching articles about why Colombian women cheat.
By the way you said you had a Masters degree which is impressive, especially when you dont know the definition of bondage.
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Well this was fantastic. I was about to tell Bravo4, he likely got his education in a third world country. After bragging about his adult psychology degree, nothing he rambled off had anything to do with psychology, and more of his personal opinion. I could mention many similar shows that a Colombian woman has also seen, so now my chance of love with this is definitive?
I call bullshit on his degree and I’m glad you pointed out his pathetic/useless comment.
Sincerely,
A gringo
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I think what needs to be understood by American men looking for Colombian women (or any foreign women) is that if they choose the more attractive, younger women, start a “relationship” with one of them, then return home to the US and expect her to wait in Colombia faithfully for many months hoping that he will return to marry her some day, she probably is not going to be faithful for very long. If she’s beautiful she’s going to get offers from handsome men in Colombia. If her man has returned to the US she doesn’t really have any guarantee he will ever return to marry her. It’s very hard for any man or woman from any country to stay faithful in that situation. You can try to keep tabs on her by video-chatting every night, but she will have opportunities to cheat and you will drive yourself crazy trying to keep tabs on her. Don’t expect her to be faithful until you can live together permanently. That’s the reality.
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Fuck Colombian girls, I dated two Colombian bitches and they both cheated on me so fuck them all
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Colombian girls are snakes in the grass! I can meet the sweetest nicest most amazing female and when I find out shes Colombian I will fucking run for my life! If shes hot I will fuck her then run! What idiot possibly believes he can have a future with those type of females? All they do is fuck around. I see some people actually talking about living in the US and dating a Colombian in Colombia? No amount of talking or video chatting will make sure she is not fucking around.
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Dating a Colombian was the biggest mistake of my life. No pussy is worth all their bullshit. Unfaithful whores!
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I think everyone’s missing the point here. Sure, it’s easy enough to say that all Colombianas are whores. But *which* Colombianas are the *biggest* whores? Calenas, Paisas, Costenas, Rolas? Maybe those sluts from Manizales?
Let’s not let this thread deteriorate into broad invective and silly name-calling.
Discuss amongst yourselves, and be sure to provide data.
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Never a reason to defend Colombian chicks. They are the biggest whores of the universe.
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The easiest pussy I ever got in the world was Colombian pussy. Whores cant be trusted and trying to turn these whores into house wives is the biggest joke in the world. Houdini couldnt pull that shit off! If I meet a man who tells me his wife is a Colombian it will take every ounce in me not to laugh in his face!
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Oh my goodness
Lost 1/2 mill in divorce to chase Colombian girl in my own country, not Colombia
So it wasn’t to get her here
Most beautiful woman I have ever met.
On again off again
Extremely emotional
And the religious cover too
So finally marries me
Lasts less than 2 months!!
Didn’t cheat , just left…
Everything had to go exactly her way of the “shutdown”
Never, never ever again….
So tell me , where are the good women ????
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I meant or the shutdown treatment
She left , not me
Anger management issues ….
Are they all so emotional ??
Tiring ….
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Allow me to share my story. I tried dating a Colombian woman. I went on a vacation and met a beautiful woman there and got her number. She dressed very provocative but spoke ok for a women with little to no college education. We spoke all the time after coming back to the states. I live in California so not only was distance an issue but so was our time zones. We still spoke everyday. I would visit every 3-4 months. Paying out of pocket is expensive. She couldnt come see me because she had 3 kids from a previous relationship. As much as I could, I tried to overlook these kind of flaws she had because she seemed so full of life and was always smiling. I learned the hard way that she kept me living in the dark. She was cheating on me. To be honest I couldnt believe it. I didnt want to believe it. The things she would say to me about how much she loved me and the way she would flaunt our relationship to people that I was her man when I was in town and even on websites like Face book and Google+ I just couldnt believe she was cheating. She was cheating on me with more than 3 different men including the father of 2 of her 3 kids. One was even a married man who had twins on the way! Not to mention that those guys knew she had a boyfriend to but what do they care pussy is pussy to them right? Turns out all her friends and family who knew me knew she was cheating to and never mentioned a word. Of course her friends wouldnt say nothing because they were whores themselves who slept with married men. I cant begin to say how much money I lost by spending on her and flying out there. Easily over 20, 000 in the first year. I learned a lot of things from this relationship. 1 Dont be fooled that at the beginning she doesnt take money from you. Once she knows shes got you she would rape your money by throwing a sob story. (Her stories were she couldnt afford her rent or stuff for her kids.) 2 It is important to know her past. If shes a young girl from her 20s to late 20s and she tells you one of her ex bfs was an older man (40s-50s) LEAVE THAT BITCH QUICK! She is looking for money! Women who date men with a huge age gap like that are looking for a sugar daddy. 3 Just think with your head. If she slept with you rather quickly imagine how many other men have sticked her! BEFORE DURING AND AFTER YOUR RELATIONSHIP! I slept with my ex colombiana the second time I visited her for about a 8 days. I fucked her about 12 times before I left. Needless to say I learned my lesson and left her when I found out she was cheating. Seeing the way her and her friends were should have been an eye opener but I was stupid. You cant make a whore a house wife that is for sure. Luckily I have met a wonderful woman since her. (Shes not colombian and I will never mess with colombian women ever again) She is the complete opposite of my ex. She lives in California but lives about 3 hours away so it is also long distance. She is faithful respectful religious and puts my happiness first before she would hers! One thing that shows me that my current girlfriend loves me is our financial relationship. She is very independent. If at any time she needs money I dont mind giving it to her but she wont take unless she makes me agree that she can pay me back. Shes not using me because she takes nothing from me. Another thing that shows me what type of girl she is is if she got plans to go out with friends and I tell her to have fun and that im just going to stay home she would rather cancel her plans and speak to me since we are far away at the moment then go out with her friends. I have NEVER in my life seen that from a woman and that showed me that not only does she love me but shes dedicated to our relationship! She has a college education and is very confident in herself not because shes beautiful but because she is educated. I never thought I could find a smart woman outrageously sexy and my current girlfriend does that for me. She dresses sexy yet classy by not showing too much but showing enough. In more simple terms my current girlfriend is my soul mate. I love her and my family knows how good she is for me. No woman has made me feel the urge to bust my ass working and even going back to school just so I can be the best provider for her. To the guys who believe that you have found a decent colombian woman man you better hold on to your hat because your in for the most bullshit ride of your life! At the end of the day I dont hate my ex colombiana even though she is the whore of the universe because she only made me realize what a real dedicated loving woman is.
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My ex this year has taken up with a 26 Colombian Spanish woman he is 45 would you say this is a good move he’s British by the way he was quick to put the house on the market and end our 22 years together he met her in Malaga late may 2017? Would like your thoughts
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You guys think its just colombian, its peruvian, el salvadorean, and especially mexican women.
I have dated them all. They all have attitude problems, that is why the men in their countries drink,
I have been to Colombia many times, to El Poblado, to Envigado and these are the 2 richest areas and if you can find a women from a good family with traditional values, you may get lucky. But if you are a fat slob and think that you can hand pick a hot women, sorry , its a business transaction. To the mexican guy that has a colombian girlfriend, you are stupid to trust her with a long distance, she is cheating on you with some ahole from san andres island (colombian owned island with black colombian men) that dances with her all night!
FYI, All of those mail order brides are just women looking to advance themselves financially, if you get an ugly one, then she wants love, a hot one wants money , same thing with eastern european women,
I wouldn’t single out only Colombian women, most of these women that I mentioned from the other countries are the same especially peru, mexico, el salvador and eastern european mafias.
It is sad, but I met some really nice Colombian women, but they were all over 45.
So,if I wanted love, I have to marry the mothers, if I want a good time, i have to be a sucker for the slut daughter, btw most of them are on pornhub and do strip shows via webcams.
Once again, be careful with filthy con aritist colombian men that will rip you off and mislead you about a colombian women. Also, if the taxi you take tries to change to a new taxi, run fast.
When you first get in a taxi, take a picture of the guy with your cell phone camera and tell him “Ya tome esta fota para tener pruebas donde es ud y en cual taxi estoy y la envie a mucha gente” Tell him you took a picture of him and his cab and you sent it to many people and it is your proof. He won’t dare pull the switch taxi scam where they rob you. Also, you are supposed to get a taxi dispatched from the airport with a number, never take random taxis off the street, they are scammers.
So again, if you think Colombian woman suck, if you marry a low class one , expect skum bag drunk men in her family to expect money wired, same thing with mexican cholos and same thing with El Salvadorean and Peruvian or settle for the corn fed american women that has mental illness and likes being gang bang and divorces you and takes all your money.
Colombian men are some of the biggest alcoholics and scam artists and even plays games where they let their women marry a gringo and send him the money.
So, really we have no other options, you either get a corn fed american women that has mental illness and is depressed or you get a latin that will cut your weiner off.
What I have done now is get saved and accept Jesus Christ and I will only date a religous women, with no front that will go to church with me , only a sincere one and there are some good latin women that are nice and conservative and I am just looking at religous websites and I advise you to end the sex thing living in sin and look for a women that you can love with our lord jesus christ and live with him and you will happy together forever.
Good Luck.
Robert
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All women are hoes, doesn’t matter the country.
Never leave a women alone for too long, she will screw the next smooth talker.
If you got a good women, try to be with her all the time and never let her leave your sight, that is just the simple reality.
If she goes out of the country, you better go with her.
Guys just don’t care if she has a boyfriend or is married, pussy is pussy, no remorse.
The way it works in colombia is that guys are notorious for cheating and drinking aquadiente, Good Colombian women with traditional values are good women and yet her brother from the same family is a thief and asshole and will be the one that will ruin your relationship.
I like the comment about living with Jesus in your heart.
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I had a nice Colombian girl friend here in the USA and then her piece of shit trashy alcholic skum bag zero educated, shit head, drug addict, fucken asshole colombian brother came from Barranquilla Colombia to live with her and be supported by her and he ruined 4 years of our great relationship because he is a shit head that has no job, no money, and all his friends are thugs but she loved him and blood is thicker than water and then he introduced her to a disgusting gangbanger Mexican that knows how to speak her tongue and I should list his name here and a picture of this asshole and they ruined by relationship.
Take a look at the piece of shit colombian men and then you can see why the women are messed up. The women are abused by their colombain drunk men but they still love them and miss being beat and cheated by them. Btw, the other guy put it right, it is not just Colombian, but all the women.
I am taking your advice bro and will stick now to only religous websites and dating and even if I have to stay celebate before marriage, I don’t want the stress and I don’t want a divorce from a women taking all my money.
If you think having a women cheat on is depressing and you burned 2 weeks to a 2 months feeling sorry for yourself and playing detective, imagine having kids and going through a year long divorce.
Sorry man, sex aint worth that to me.
Just know also that when you marry a colombian or mexican or american women, you marry all those drunk alcoholic brothers and cousins and fat slob skum bags that wear wife beaters its nothing about race , its all the same, hoes are hoes.
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Colombia has Rolos, Paisas, vallunos, costenos, and based on where they are and the family they come from, a lot of negative stories about coastal ones for sure.
It just depends on who you get.
Nothing will beat a sweet traditional Colombian women if you can find one.
I am sad to hear about all of these stories and my heart goes out to you guys. My friend found a nice one and was lucky.
If you are a nice sweet colombian women not like the women described here, but one with class and honest
si eres una colombiana linda, diferente con las historias aqui, y con buenos modales y linda con carino , sin actutiud fuerte y muy amable, y estas buscando un hombre muy lindo y amable y honesto y muy guapo, que tiene 35 anos, sin hijos y catolico y no engano mujeres, avisame, yo se hay buenas muchachas todavia en colombia.
It is worth a shot, if you are one nice women unlike all the ones described here
mandame un correo electronico
email me at
9045business@gmail.com
9045 at gmail.com
and let talk.
Buenas suerte y Dios los Bendiga
Good Luck and God Bless You All , sorry about stress!
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i met a beautiful colombian girl working in an upscale restaurant in cartagena last june.. ended up sleeping with her on the fourth date.. went back to see her in september and after being denied her visa we arranged to meet in cuba last december.. she is very pretty 26 year old and also has a 8 year old daughter. i’d say am decent looking and even though i am 40 everyone thinks i am 30. recently am having trust issues so what are the hints or tips to find out if she is cheating..? we text everyday and talk at least twice a week.. she works 6 days a week from noon till 9 at night combined with english classes weekday mornings.. need some advice from the experts thx
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There u go Pierce, man, if she slept with you on the 4th date, she has done the same thing with other men,
U think you are something special? We guys fall for this stuff too much.
Plus she has a kid, u don’t need that baggage, and dealing with the kid’s father, and if you are okay with a chick with a kid, then your options just increased by 100.
There are no shortage of hot women here with kids!
Bro, also , don’t teach her English, better you let her teach you spanish, that way you come out ahead in the end.
At least the colombian chick I dated, I never talked to her in English and made her speak spanish, and I learned fast!
My spanish is great now, and at least I got something out of it. Trust me, take advantage , Colombia has the best spanish or all countries.
If you are really serious and love her, drop 2k and pay a detective there to follow her , but be careful, if you love her, it will hurt when you see her letting some skum bags take body shots off her and her kissing and screwing some guy! Women just get horny when a guy has money, looks don’t mean a thing. Have you actually seen any good looking colombian men? They all look like apes? Ugly!
I hate to say it, but, the other guys here that screw other women do so before they get screwed themselves,
Cartagena is the coast, go read about what they say on the coastal women.
You bring her here and then she gets papers and leaves you for some jackass guy there!
And if she is really hot, plenty of guys are all over here.
Problem is that these women have become professional liars, selfish, only care about themself, their needs, use sex to manipulate a man, but can’t do it to their own kind of filthy colombian man, because Colombian men make the worse husbands and will even cheat on them with their own sisters and mothers!
Again, she has a kid, so you are 40, you can be 45 and get a 30 yr old easily, you don’t have biological clock man, just get a haircut fade with a number 2 and put some gel and you will look 10 years younger and get a tan.
I actually now admire middle eastern women that respect the man and would never do this stuff to disrespect them unlike all these latin hoes.
All of us men dream of finding a hot women that is innocent and actually loves us and won’t cheat and its a fairy tale, very hard to find.
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cool advice paul.. do u have more info on the 2k u talking about and also where can i read info on coastal women…? i dont think she is cheating with other foreigners but when i asked her last month in cuba who was the last person she had sex before me she answered the baby daddy…! 6 months prior to our first meeting.. he came to her drunk and she said she was naive and one thing lead to another..
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I actually sat here and read all these comments. No one made me laugh harder then the mexican who lives in America with the colombian girlfriend in colombia. What a fucking idiot. She is probably sucking off someone else as we speak and he thinks its real.
These stories sound identical to mine. Dated a colombian girl. Slept with her on the 2nd date. She said she never moves that fast. I felt like I was the shit and dated her only to find out she fucks everyone. She fooled me because she always said how much she loves me. When she got comfortable she started asking for $ like crazy to the point where I started struggling. She had so many side guys and played me like a piano. I learned my lesson no more colombian bitches. Truth be told I should have hit it and quit it when I saw how easy it was for me to get in her pants.
It is so hard to find good decent girls out there.
By the way I agree with Paul I have noticed middle eastern girls a lot lately. I live in San Diego where there is a lot of them. They are true women I admire. They dont give themselves easy dont disrespect their men and dont disrespect themselves by acting like hoes. They are beyond beautifull. I think its time to give up on the latina hoes all together and go for the middle eastern bombshells! Im gettin older and want kids and the last thing I need is a hoe to raise them!
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ok but edward how did u found out she was cheating…? if there were any what were the signs or hints…? sorry btw..
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To Pierce, I found out she was cheating because of the way she would act. Yes she would tell me she loves me and she would ever show the world on her fb. But she liked to go to the clubs a lot and hang with her friends who are all whores. More and more I noticed she was always flaunting off her body wearing next to nothing. That gave me the clue that by showing herself she is looking for attention from other guys. I noticed that when I came to visit she would dress more conservative but when I was back in the states all the new pics she would post would be her dressed like a hoe. Finally one time I went to visit a friend of hers who was a hoe herself let me in that she had slept with a guy the night before I came into town. When I confronted her she denied denied but she finally fessed up. Colombian women are evil man.
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wow man…! horror stories all over the place.. makes me wanna do a surprise visit haha.. i realize even her parents or coworkers can be in on the scam.. better late than never edward..
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To Pierce all her friends and family usually cover or back them up. The only reason why her friend told me was because she was mad that the guy she wanted to fuck that night fucked my girl instead! Horrible right? I dont know if you have social web pages like facebook or google + or instagram but I will tell you this dont let that get to you if she posts nothing but pics of you two or how much she loves you. They act one way on social media sites and another when your not around. Good luck my friend I believe you will need it bad.
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To the mexican america dating the colombiana jajajajaja your in for a rude awakening one day! What a stupid guy!
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Pierce,
I really feel for you.
The fact that she slept with you so fast, is clear to me that she is a hoe. A good women from a good family waits at least a few weeks if not a couple months, you basically paid for your action indirectly.
Forget the surprise visit, Like I said, if you really like her, spend $2000 on a private detective to follow her and photograph her for 6 weeks, don’t pay him upfront, pay him a little and then per pic. The average salary in colombia is $500 per month, 2k will go a long way there and that should cover it 6 weeks.
There is a slight chance that she may really love you and may be legit, but I doubt it, based on these stories and she has a kid, don’t waste your time, chicks with kids are plain old easy!
You don’t want that baggage if she turns out to be a hoe and liar and then goes and brings back the dad with your papers.
You ask a lot how to know if she is cheating?
It’s simple, if you feel it in your gut, then she is.
And the fact that she slept with you so fast, means she probably is.
She is probably playing someone else, or if not, has a backup candidate.
Chicks don’t care to have a good time with or without you.
And if she works at a bar or club you mentioned, she is approached by men all the time.
Be warned, when just looking at facebook and checking her friends and say you hire a detective, the stuff just hurts man, and in my case, I lost 5 weeks of work and wasted a lot of my time doing that.
The chicks get caught and they still lie.
These chicks don’t care, they have no feelings and go in survival mode.
And u said that she admitted to screwing her ex.
She probably is still screwing him
Have you seen a good looking colombian man there?
Or just apes that look filthy and just drink all day and night and beat their women, and lie and have double lives?
But , didn’t your dad and friends warn you, these women like to get the crap beat out of them, so a guy like you that is a good guy and treats her well doesn’t make her horny enough like the drunk ex that doesn’t even know what foreplay is and treats her like crap.
No shortage of filthy colombian alcoholics there.
If we could take a time machine back 1=2 generations, colombian women had the best morals and made the best wives, now unless she comes from a good family, she is hoe.
The other thing, get in shape if you are not, like i said before get a number 2 fade haircut, put gel on your hair, get a tan, dress like a surfer, put a cap with sunglasses sometimes, and you will knock 10 year off, and lie about your age, you are feeling like I was that you are getting to old to get hot young chicks.
Don’t wear a tie, it ages you more, just a jacket with a collar shirt and top button unbuttoned.
I have to wear a tie to work, but now when I post pics for or go out with chicks, no tie, I look younger.
I am in the same boat as you man.
Chicks are looking for a good man, if you are a good guy, don’t worry but again, a chick with a kid is pure stress!
I tell all the chicks I am 30. They can’t tell.
Us men can be 45 and get 25-35 with no problem
If you do end up going back there, and you find out she is cheating. right away bone some other hot chicks to get your mind off her, otherwise you will be depressed and broke, enjoy some other babes, go out with them, and take pictures and send them to her and tell her she is a hoe and you are reporting her to the US for a fraud alert, so she can never come here and scam others and she will be blocked.
Always use protection with these women too.
To be honest,
I like the other comments on finding Jesus or whatever religion you are, a religous woman that goes to church will increase your odds of success.
I want to be able to leave my future wife alone and not have to worry that she is sucking off some CHOLO gangbanger and texting me that she is with her friends while she is getting boned.
A nice woman that is honest and will do her share.
Half of these comments labled colombian women and bitches that have to have it their way and won’t give in.
A relationship is supposed to be 2 sided.
And typically the man has the final say, and that is how is was in prior generations, now these latin hoes expect everything for some rotten pussy!
Thanks to the guy to made this forum!
you are a hero!
God bless!
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